Tell me about pictures of children being bullied.

Parents will feel distressed when they hear that their children are bullied by others. They really want to make their children stronger, let them fight back directly, and even want to vent their anger on their children.

Some parents think that if children are always bullied and don't fight back, they will become weak and make each other more arrogant. But is it really right to let the children call back?

When children leave home for school, they may encounter various accidents or suffer from school bullying. There are three common treatment methods.

Timid children won't fight back and let others bully them.

Most children are afraid to fight back when they suffer from school bullying. Children will feel scared, cry, compromise, endure all this all the time, and dare not tell teachers and parents afterwards.

This treatment is wrong. If the child doesn't fight back, it will increase the arrogance of the other party. In the future, children will be treated as targets of bullying, and children will become timid, cowardly and even have psychological problems.

Some children are bold and will fight back immediately if they are beaten.

Some children are bold and extroverted. The child was beaten and was very dissatisfied. He would fight back immediately and didn't want to be bullied by others.

Children who choose to fight back will have two fates. The first is that children fight back successfully and beat each other. Although the child will not be bullied by others this time, he will become very violent, and will gradually like to solve problems with violence, and may bully others.

The second is that the counterattack is unsuccessful and more dangerous, because it will anger the other party, and the child may be beaten more seriously, and even become the "thorn in the side" of the other party, often bullying the child.

Smart children will ask teachers and parents for help.

Some children are very clever. When they suffer from school bullying, they will not forbear or fight back, but will tell their teachers and parents about it at the first time.

After the intervention of teachers and parents, the children who hit people dare not continue to be violent, and the children will not continue to be subjected to violence. Teachers and parents can educate the children who beat people and contact their parents to solve this problem together and suppress the arrogance of the hitters.

After the child is beaten, it is most important to appease the child's emotions.

Some parents will fly into a rage when they hear that their children have been beaten. They want to ask the parents of the hitter for an explanation, or keep asking their children why and how it happened, or even blame their children for being worthless and ask them why they didn't fight back.

These practices are all wrong. What children need most after being beaten is the comfort of their parents. Parents should first stabilize their children's emotions, let them not be afraid, and tell them that no matter what happens, parents will stand by and watch him.

Smart parents will not stand up for their children, but be their children's "military advisers" and let them solve their own problems.

The children in the school are all about the same age, so it is normal for students to have conflicts. Parents should not be too sensitive, let alone solve problems for their children, because if they always help their children, they will never learn how to solve problems.

Parents should teach their children how to deal with such problems, and then let them solve them themselves. For example, after the child is beaten, parents should tell the child that this will happen again in the future. First, they should tell the teacher to help solve it, and then they should tell their parents to communicate with each other's parents to avoid similar things in the future.

In daily life, parents should cultivate their children's self-confidence and expressive ability.

These two points are very important for children. If children are confident, they will not be afraid of school bullying. This kind of child looks very annoying and will hardly be bullied.

Expression ability is also very important for children. If someone bullies a child, the child can fight back with words, shock the other party through words, and make the other party feel that the child is not good, so they will not bully the child.

Parents should also let their children learn to improvise and keep a clear head at all times.

Some children will be particularly scared after suffering from school bullying, and they don't know what to do for a while. Their brains are blank and they just cry in situ.

Parents should tell their children that in this case, they should take action according to the situation. If there are many people, don't call back, run away in time and ask for help from people nearby to avoid serious injury.

Children who are often bullied often don't have many good friends, and smart parents will cultivate their children's social skills.

People are social animals, especially children who are at school, and like to play with them. If children have many good friends at school and many classmates around them at any time, the probability of being bullied will be very low. On the other hand, if a child has no friends and is always alone, it is easy to be bullied.

Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's social skills and let them make more friends at school. When children have many good friends, others dare not bully them easily.