I devote myself to every game. But never ranked ... never won an award. ...

How do you feel after the tug-of-war defeat? Everyone blames me for the tug of war, and I don't want to lose, but it doesn't matter. The big deal is that everyone ignores me. But when I came, my best classmates also blamed me. No one wants to talk to me and no one comes to comfort me. To put it bluntly, I am the kind of person who is ignored. Before the isolation, it was Yuan Meimei who came to care for me and comfort me, but she transferred to another school. It doesn't matter, it's just that all my close friends have left me. It's just that I cried I cried sadly, and the scar that had just been healed by compassion day was uncovered again, and no one took care of my feelings! No. If Yuan were still here, she would definitely come to comfort me. At least I have a place to cry and a harbor to shelter from the wind from time to time. I am like a boat far away from the big army, drifting alone on the river. The calm sea seems to break my wreckage today. My classmates also have special respect for me. Their eyes are like sharp bayonets, devouring my soul and biting me like wolves. I feel that my classmates hate me and are angry with me, but who is cursing when it is time to think of each other? It must be empty! And there must be very few people who put in a good word for me, or even none at all. Everyone is right, except me. I'm really upset. I really don't know why. Now everyone thinks that I am the chief culprit leading to the defeat of tug-of-war. I really don't know how to say it. I feel bad. I cried, really cried, and I was extremely sad. I really want to explain to my classmates, but what's the use? Will they listen? No, no. In my world, friends leave me, happiness leaves me, and my life is dim and incomplete. I really hope my classmates can forgive me and let happiness come back to me! On Thursday afternoon, our sixth grade organized a tug-of-war competition. The playground was very lively, and I saw the boys cheering before the start. Our opponents are very strong, but people on our side are thinner, so we can't help shivering. We kick our feet first, and then hold the rope with our hands crossed. With the sound of "B-",we got lost. Despite our best efforts, we lost to Class Two. Later, I heard the comfort of my classmates: "It doesn't matter if I lost the first game, there are still two games left." We changed the venue for the next game. I took a deep breath and relaxed my fatigue. B- again. We have mastered a little method. We pulled the rope, and then the opponent pulled it. But we persisted and pulled the rope bit by bit. With the sound of "B-",the referee announced that our class had won the second game. Then the class teacher draws lots to choose the venue. Our class didn't get the priority, so it changed again. "B-"rang again. I gritted my teeth and pulled hard with all my strength. I saw the rope slowly coming to our side, and the other side was not to be outdone, so I pulled hard. The rope slowly approached them again. Very close. It's close again. We lost. Teachers and classmates have come to comfort us. "It doesn't matter. Anyway, we all tried our best, and winning a game is winning. Don't be discouraged. " We trudged towards the classroom. Every step I take makes me feel bored, as if I had done something wrong. However, it's no big deal to lose, it's just a game, and the game is to participate! It doesn't matter if we lose this time, as long as our confidence doesn't lose, we will win! We are very sad that we lost the tug-of-war today. I think we will lose, because the tug-of-war classmates didn't work hard with Qi Xin. They laughed at the tug-of-war, but they didn't exert themselves, so we will lose. Another reason is that the students in Class 4, Grade 3 are very strong and United. Although the tug-of-war is lost, we should continue to work hard and exercise, so as to win the championship in the next competition. The feeling after the failure of tug-of-war these days, our school held a series of winter sports activities, kicking shuttlecock on the first day and skipping rope on the second day. Our class is the first in the grade group. There will be a tug-of-war this afternoon. In order to give more encouragement to the students, I specially left two pieces of good news to announce before the game. The students couldn't help cheering when they heard this. They were very happy, confident and bravely stepped onto the field. After the game, the team members quit desperately, and the cheerleaders shouted at the top of their voices. It's a pity that our class won three rounds and didn't win a game. After the game, all the children in our class returned to the classroom dejectedly. The huge psychological gap before and after the game made the students start to find excuses and blame each other. "There are many fat people in other classes, but there are no fat people in our class." "Liu Na didn't work hard at tug-of-war." "It's all because Teacher Zhuang didn't choose me!" "Don't blame me, I used all my strength, but you didn't!" "The tug-of-war in class XX is unruly, and there are two more people than our class" ... Looking at the child blushing and pouting, several girls are still crying. I made up my mind to seize this opportunity to guide students to write diaries. So I motioned for them to calm down. Say calmly to the children: "classmates, today's tug-of-war competition, our class's performance is not ideal, can you tell me about your mood now?" "I feel very sad." "I feel very sad that our class lost!" "Our class didn't win a game, I feel very disappointed!" I casually wrote the words "sad", "sad" and "disappointed" on the blackboard. I continued to comfort my classmates: "Our class didn't get the ranking, and the teacher's mood was the same as yours, but I learned that the classmates had tried their best." On the field, all the players did their best. Look, Zhu Zhihao is still sweating; Tian Yu also fell in the last game; Cheerleading classmates also mustered all their strength and cheered loudly for the players in our class; And the students in our class are really shorter than other classes. I think as long as our classmates do their best, no matter what the final result is, we should have no regrets, just like our class kicked shuttlecock and jumped rope, and our class won the first place. "After my comfort, the students seem to feel much better and stop complaining. In order to make the students feel more balanced, I went on to say, "Come, let's review the performance of the players in our class on the court just now. "The students talked about it in succession:" I saw XX, pulling the tug-of-war rope with both hands, closing his eyes and opening his mouth, gritting his teeth and pulling hard. " "I saw XX sweating and my face was red." "XX tied the tug-of-war rope to his waist and pulled it hard." "XX's foot slipped on the ground and he didn't give up." "Cheerleading XX is the loudest, so jump up and clap your hands and shout for cheer." "I saw Mr. Zhuang's face flushed, cheering for our class loudly, and pulling his hands rhythmically, as if he had passed all his strength on to the players. "... the students vividly described what they saw and heard on the field, and I wrote down the good words that popped out of their mouths from time to time. At this time, Wu Zhongyu raised his hand as if he realized something, and I motioned for him to speak. He said very seriously: "Teacher Zhuang, I think our class lost, not because our classmates are short, but because our class can win several times." The eyes of the students were all focused on him at once. This is a clever boy. I nodded approvingly and asked, "Oh, what do you think caused our class to lose a few games?" "I think the tug-of-war technology of our classmates is very problematic. When tug-of-war, the body should be in a semi-squat position and lean back. If the students all think in one place and work hard in one place, our class may win. " As soon as his voice fell, he stood up all his life and said, "Yes, some players stood too close to play their role, which is why our class didn't win." "Students began to reflect, and I promptly guided the students:" Yes, you are right. If we find the right method and pay attention to it, we will certainly achieve good results. "Life is full of competition. Next, we will welcome the final exam. Similarly, we will compete with three other classes for the first place. What are the students going to do? " The students were encouraged and raised their hands. I have a purpose to find some students who are usually inattentive in class, love to make small moves, always do less homework and don't study hard. I found that all the children spoke very well and showed their determination to work hard. So, I changed the topic: "If we write down today's tug-of-war and what we say and think now, it will be an excellent diary. Think about it. How should I name it? " Tug of War, After Losing the Game, We Won't Lose, We Won't Lose with Grace ... I continued to guide: "How to write? Please discuss writing in groups of four. " ..... The students discussed with great interest, and I took the opportunity to write down the main points on the blackboard. Finally, I pointed to the blackboard and said, "This is the writing method, and this is the teacher's good handwriting." Can you keep a diary now? Have the confidence to write well? "This is a natural thing. When the tug-of-war is lost, an interesting movement instruction is completed. Students have mastered the method of writing, regained their confidence and made clear the direction of their future efforts.