Excerpt from what the old man (elder) said.

1, looking for a wife, don't look at her kindness to you, look at her kindness to others. What she does to others now will be done to you in the future.

No one in the world has the obligation to do this to you, except mom and dad.

When I was a child, I always heard my grandmother say that if we want to eat, we have to have a place to post it, which means that we can't rely on others and have our own nest.

4. My mother said: Men have no good things.

5. Make money like a grandson, and spend money like an old man.

6. My sister is not married at the age of 27, and the whole family is in a hurry. My grandmother said that she didn't want to get married, but she didn't wait for the right person, and she would marry even if she was very old. This is the most reasonable sentence I have ever heard from my grandmother, not one of them.

7. My dad said don't care about other people's opinions, be yourself. They say you are bad, and you will never lose a piece of meat. They say hello, and you won't get 50 thousand yuan. None of your business.

8. My father said: When you reach my age, you will know that the world is not black and white, and most of it is gray. You should learn to compromise these.

9. Everyone wants to ride in a sedan chair, but who will? Everyone's existence has its value, even if it is ordinary. Grandma said this when she didn't do well in the college entrance examination

10, look at a person's personality, you can refer to his parents and friends.

1 1, Time flies and people are getting old. Oh, let a man with spirit take risks in his favorite place. Like my grandmother said, make a lot of money safely.

12, I won't stop young people from falling in love. Do you know what it's like to love to death? When you have a baby and have no money to buy diapers, you will naturally understand.

13, dad said that if you want to get ahead, you will inevitably step on others, but my daughter, I don't want you to. I hope you will always be kind, even if you can't get ahead, you will be smooth sailing.

14, girl, don't get emotional. When you are emotional, trouble comes.

15. When a woman is sincere to you, what you can repay is not sincerity, but responsibility, so that it can last for a long time.

16, I don't want you to have money, because it's not practical and it's gone in a blink of an eye. I think God will give my daughter a stable life.

17, the love that others give you in the world is gathering, and only the love of parents is separation.

18, even if money falls from the sky, you can't pick up what my dad said when you sleep under the covers.

19, no one in the whole world really can't live without anyone.

20, reading is a gift! It's not your fault that you failed the exam.

2 1, my mother said: our family is dirty! I hope you find a beautiful wife and children, so you won't be so ugly.

22. What can be together can naturally last for a long time. It's not that there is no true feeling, but it's inappropriate. If we get back together, it won't last long. Dad used to comfort me like this.

23. My mother told me that ugly people should stand tall and be human. It is better to be laughed at than forgotten.

24. If you really want to go to a place, you have an appointment with your friend, but your friend can't go because of something, leaving you alone. Then don't be afraid of loneliness, walk alone, and don't change your direction because of other people's decisions.

25. Even the best things will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. People who love again will leave one day. No matter how beautiful the dream is, it will wake up one day. Never keep what you should give up. Never let go of what you should cherish, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you hurt each other! You can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply.

27, love is not complicated, just three words come and go, either I love you, I hate you, or forget it, hello, I'm sorry.

28. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others. When a person opens his mouth to make a request, he has two answers in mind. Therefore, it is expected to give him any answer.

29. Don't expect sparrows to fly very high. High in the sky, that is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow is in the right position, it will still be very happy!

30. There will always be someone hidden in everyone's heart in one's life. Maybe this person will never know. Nevertheless, this person will never be replaced by anyone. And that person is like a scar that will never heal. Whenever it is gently lifted or touched, it hurts faintly.

Excerpt from The Complete Works of Reasonable Life Words

The first sentence of a reasonable life:

First, read books when you are bored, but you must have your own life goals and plans.

Second, atmospheric people can do their own job with peace of mind, do what they are doing seriously, and strive for fame and fortune and money. People with great aura can make their world broad, even if they are frustrated for a while, they will eventually become great. What should come will come eventually, and what should go will definitely leave. Everything has a cause and effect, and when the cause is mature, karma will arise and cannot be stopped.

Third, endure for a while, calm down, take a step back and broaden your horizons.

Fourth, strive for what you like, cherish what you get and forget what you miss. In fact, life is so simple. Life is not complicated, we make it complicated by ourselves. What is complicated is not only between people, but also the ideal self and the realistic self. What complicates everything is our endless desire. Because of desire, everything you get is no longer precious, and everything you can't get is good. People know how to be content, when will they be happy.

If we are all children, we can stay where time is, sit together and slowly lower our heads, while listening to stories that will never grow old.

6. Flowers need enough soil to bloom, but only if they germinate first. Society will transplant us from small flowerpots to large flowerpots as we grow up. If we were towering trees, we would be put in fertile soil in the wild. When happiness is close at hand, we should learn to cherish it. Don't forget when it passed: it turned out that we were so close to happiness.

Seven, people can't stand it, pedestrians can't stand it. Name: Nobita. Therefore, it is named: Daxiong Hall. That is, Buddha also.

Eight, the wound, like me, is a stubborn child who refuses to heal, because the heart is a warm and humid place suitable for anything to grow.

Nine, the reason why people worry lies in memory; The reason why people are tired lies in wandering; The reason why people move forward lies in gratitude; People are happy because they are open-minded; The reason why people are mature lies in seeing through; The reason why people give up lies in choice; The reason why people are tolerant lies in understanding; The reason why people are human lies in their feelings; The reason why people are rich is the process; The reason why people succeed lies in diligence; People are happy because they are content.

Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray.

If you meet someone and you love him more, then you will lose him forever. Then, you meet another person who loves you more, so you will leave him sooner or later. Until one day, you meet someone and you fall in love. Finally, you understand that all searches have a process. Once in the end of the world, now it is close at hand.

Twelve, Qiu Lai spring buds sprouting, yellow leaves flying. This is the choice of leaves. You can choose to return or give up. If you don't give up, there will be no regeneration, and if you don't give up, you won't get it. Giving up is a natural law and a philosophy of life.

Thirteen, gathering and parting is the law of life, don't care, why be sad. Because of the pain, we choose to hide; Because we still have dreams, we choose to be strong. What you want is always far from what you can get. Some people are doomed to miss it. And some people don't even miss it, just pass by. All the sadness is over. As time goes by, you will find that your happiness is much more than you think.

Fourteen, people always cherish what they don't get and forget what they have.

15. Sincerity, frankness, generosity, tolerance and normality.

16. Pessimists will feel that no matter how much they do, everything is in vain and life is meaningless. Even a fairy, where you are is unknown, and it is impossible to know. In this way, from the day when people know that they will die, some people will be pessimistic all their lives, or pessimistic for a while, leading a negative life, willing to be mediocre, muddling along and doing nothing. When they encounter setbacks, pressures and difficulties, they choose to escape, even ignore their family ties and responsibilities, and choose to get rid of them, which leads to the sadness of life accompanied by the sadness of ideas.

Seventeen, Gu Long said that girls who love to laugh will not be too bad luck.

Eighteen, there is no real love time in this world can dilute everything.

19. Please remember that the definition of a good friend is: You get along well and she is really happy for you; You have a bad life, and she is really worried about you.

20. Being alive is a state of mind. When your own mind is sidelined, you are indifferent to the pain of life, indifferent to fame and fortune, and have a positive balance of mind. What you want but don't want, what you do but don't do, don't deliberately hide yourself, don't cater to others, just be a simple and true self. In this way, even if you are frustrated, you will be indifferent to gains and losses, honest, true, calm and happy.

Twenty-one, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

22. Whenever you do something, you should think.

I would rather admit my mistake than lie, because admitting my mistake is only a matter of face, but lying will cost me long-term packaging. I would rather be criticized than guilty, because criticism is only a short-term distress, but guilt is a long-term torture. It is better to make enemies than to lose, because losing is only the loss of immediate interests, and making enemies will increase the long-term cost of being a man.

Twenty-four, how long is everything.

Twenty-five, be happy, be cheerful, be tough, be enthusiastic, and be sincere to others.

Twenty-six, always full of hope for life, smile at difficulties and hardships.

Twenty-seven, a letter to men all over the world, men take a step back in front of women, this is called grace, not fear. Men argue less in front of women, which is called accommodation, not cowardice. Men can cry for women, apologize to women, and be disgusted with women. There is no future for a man who plays with a woman. An awesome man is always surrounded by an awesome woman, and she will always be the same person.

Learn to forget, forgetting is a good thing.

Reasonable life words 2:

1. Doing the right thing is more important than doing it right.

Second, I don't like reading. I like reading by myself. A person who can't talk to himself should read! I don't like studying the world, I like studying myself, and a person who can't find himself will pay attention to everything outside! I write about myself, not to show off anything, but to tell you that you can start yourself, enter yourself, and interpret your great but undiscovered self with the universe as the background and the earth as the stage!

Third, competition is much like playing tennis. Playing against a stronger opponent can improve your level. The play is from an opponent. )

Fourth, some people will never be together. But there is a feeling that can be hidden in my heart for a lifetime.

5. Life should be as trouble-free as dementia, dare to think and do as schizophrenia, be as happy as mania and be as fearless as paranoia.

6. I will meet many people in the world of mortals, but how many people will be unforgettable in their souls, and meeting you has penetrated into my bone marrow.

Seven, when you feel that anything is big, it is your own small performance;

Eight, born great, why bother? Unfamiliar familiarity, familiar strangeness, I am pure, but for the so-called proof to others, I have spent my whole life, being bound all my life, making myself farther and farther away, out of reach?

Nine, in this world, people who don't know you are passers-by, don't hurt those who applaud you, don't let go of your enemies who call, call your friends who love you from time to time, and call your loved ones who never give up. And these people, who don't know you, know you, and are called lovers.

If you want to be happy, connect your life with your goals, not with someone or something.

Eleven, the disability of life is to do what you think you should do, and finally leave this world with deep regret;

Twelve, the perfection of personality is the foundation, and the establishment of wealth is the purpose.

Thirteen, things that are too beautiful are never suitable for experience, because once experienced, they cannot be forgotten; Love that is too young is never suitable for pursuit, because we are still on the journey of growth. A beautiful encounter, a gorgeous opening is the end of debauchery. Some people can only leave; Some things can only be given up; Some memories can only be buried in my heart; Some pasts can only be forgotten.

14. Indulgence may be indulging in all kinds of things. You may be addicted to your laziness, your melancholy, your nervousness, your busyness, and your crusade against yourself or others. You will be addicted to avoiding things, delaying things or gossiping.

Fifteen, when you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal; When you are in pain, you should also think that this pain is not eternal.

16. Are all the injuries not deep enough? Is it that all the sufferings are not hard enough, so loneliness is hidden and the root cause cannot be found?

Seventeen, the real generosity to yourself is to give everything to the present!

Eighteen, life is easier to experience the power of the spirit at the limit, focus on a certain point, and deepen, and it is easier to touch the light of the spirit!

Nineteen, summer sadness, the proliferation of laziness. Like water, time has not passed.

I miss the day when I met you. Those memories engraved in my heart can't be erased after losing weight all my life. Maybe we'll never meet again. Maybe that feeling can only be a thing of the past, but you are my most touching memory.

Twenty-one, I am alone, besieged by one person, and free by one person.

Twenty-two, struggle without hope, and strive to have a head start.

Twenty-three, the difference in life is the difference in experience and experience; Ordinary people write goals and experts experience them directly;

Twenty-four, most of the pain is the result of refusing to leave, there is no doomed misfortune, only persistence.

There is nothing wrong with falling in love with you. The mistake is that I didn't make you fall in love with me.

Twenty-six, ordinary people live in confusion, experts know what others don't know, and leaders have experienced what others have not!

Twenty-seven, without experience, everything you have learned is pale, and only what you have experienced in a down-to-earth manner is the most real!

28. Without contempt, patience and struggle, there is no destiny that can be conquered.

Twenty-nine, loveless sex is destruction, loveless love is torture, sexual love is promotion, and the present on earth is heaven! It's more sad that a person can't love than have sex.

Desire comes from possession, and possession comes from self-love. You have a desire for someone, and your heart likes it at that moment; You resist the desire for someone, and the understanding at that moment is love.

Thirty-one, everyone worships, it is better to laugh than a beauty; Ten thousand people follow, not as good as the hero Shu Mei;

32. What is failure? Nothing, just a step closer to success; What is success? That is, after all the roads leading to failure, there is only one road left, and that is the road to success.

Thirty-three, energy is enough to be king, energy is not enough to die, energy is strong, energy is weak and ghostly! The core of all practice is to replenish energy, and the method of all practice is to eat and drink Lazar. How to get in?

Thirty-four, the prosperity of the world can't hide the hurt in my heart, and the clouds everywhere can't take away the dull past.

Thirty-five, for the so-called truth imposed on yourself, physical and mental exhaustion, according to the so-called hypothetical standards, benevolence and morality, so that the sincerity can not be achieved!

Thirty-six, when love is not perfect, I would rather choose no regrets. No matter how beautiful the afterlife is, I don't want to lose your memory in this life. I don't want eternal beauty. I want you in all reincarnation, even if I keep a memory, I will laugh happily.

Thirty-seven, there is only one way to choose, and that is the way to give up; There is only one way you can't refuse, and that is the way to grow up.

38. Life is a lonely process.

39. In this life, it is good to love each other, but it is not because it is inappropriate.

The most pitiful thing about human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon, instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming in front of our window today.

Life is a miss, I hope you don't waste it.

Very reasonable statement.

1, don't be afraid to refuse others, if your reasons are justified. When a person opens his mouth to make a request, he has two answers in mind. Therefore, it is expected to give him any answer.

2, because of love, so compassion; Because you know, you are tolerant.

3, love, has always been a thousand turns. How can you love someone if you have never been abandoned or hurt?

If I say this song is very nice, please listen to the lyrics carefully, because that's what I want you to understand.

It hurts more to get and lose than never to get it.

6, love is not complicated, just three words come and go, either I love you, I hate you, or forget it, hello, I'm sorry.

7. You don't understand that liking someone is fate, even if it is doomed, it is doomed.

8. We have been practicing smiling, and finally we become people who are afraid to cry.

9. If you feel that your feelings are not fresh, remember to remind yourself that warmth is the static state of passion.

10, withering is real, blooming is just the past.

1 1, sorry is a kind of sincerity, it doesn't matter is a kind of demeanor. If you give your heart, but you can't get grace, it can only show the ignorance and vulgarity of the other party!

When a woman is looking at the sky, she doesn't want to look for anything. She is just lonely.

13, the grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover.

14, if memory itself is a grape, then the process of memory is fermentation.

15, I thought that one day, I would completely forget my love and you, but suddenly one day, I heard an old song, and my tears came down, because we heard this song together.

16. The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too hard on close people. Change this bad habit and the world will be peaceful.

17, don't expect sparrows to fly very high. High in the sky, that is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow is in the right position, it will still be very happy!

18, one friend is very good, two friends are a little too many, and three friends are too many. Just have a bosom friend, not too many. If you really don't, you still have yourself. Be kind to yourself, get along with yourself and be friends.

19, even the best things will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. People who love again will leave one day. No matter how beautiful the dream is, it will wake up one day. Never keep what you should give up. Never let go of what you should cherish, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you hurt each other! You can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply.

20. Think of a thousand roads at night, and wake up in the morning and go the same way.

2 1. In any case, it is always unforgivable for a person to make excuses. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself.

22. Words are spoken by people, and farting is also put. Speaking is just like farting, and it is just a breath. ...

23. I married a red rose. Over time, the red rose became a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed"; Married a white rose, white rose is rice residue on clothes, and red rose is Zhu Shazhi in my heart.

24. There will always be a person hidden in everyone's heart in one's life. Maybe this person will never know. Nevertheless, this person will never be replaced by anyone. And that person is like a scar that will never heal. Whenever it is gently lifted or touched, it hurts faintly.

25. When you like me, I don't like you. When you love me, I like you. I fell in love with you when you left me. Are you walking too fast or can't I keep up with you? We missed Noah's Ark, Titanic, all the thrills and thrills, and we will continue to miss it. I don't know where my loneliness comes from, but I really feel lonely. You are also lonely, everyone in the world is lonely, but everyone's loneliness is different!

26. I finally found that my eyes on people are too simple. I never thought about what kind of face is under the mask. I always treat the mask directly as my face, but I forget that there is always a tearful face under the smiling face mask.

27. Some people's love is just a kind of "emotion at that time". If the other person mistakenly regards this feeling as a long-term love, it is naive.

28. When love taps the shoulder, a person who doesn't even care about poetry and painting will become a poet.

29. If you can't forget him, don't forget him. True forgetfulness requires no effort. Life is meaningful. Say short sentences. What the old man said to the younger generation makes sense.

Spring is not a season, but a heart; Life is not the body, but the mind. Old people are not age, but a state of mind. Man is not an era, but a state of mind. Life is not time, but eternity.

Touching in life is temporary, and gratitude is lifelong; Glory is temporary and its influence is lifelong; Grievances are temporary, achievements are lifelong.

Fools think that happiness lies on the other side, and wise men know how to cultivate the food around them into happiness.

Be patient when things happen, but keep a sense of pride and don't let people trample on them again and again;

You have to have a backbone to keep your feelings from falling.

Open your eyes and see the real society clearly. If you are useful, you are a treasure; If you are useless, you are a grass.

Feel your mood and understand the hearts of these fickle people. Some people hide the knife in their smile, while others are pushing behind their backs.

Slowly understand and deeply feel, I hope you have the vision to see through all this;

Grow up gradually, be quiet and strong, may you have the ability to shake hands with life peacefully!

Don't judge others' looks, because they don't depend on your food.

Don't judge other people's virtue, because you are not nobler than him.

Don't judge other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you.

Don't judge other people's knowledge, because knowledge is the most important thing in the world.

We should know how to cherish and protect everyone around us, because looking back at the broken neck in our last life, we only met in this life.

People are tired of living because they can't put down their shelves, tear their faces and solve their complex.

The mentality can be peaceful, but it can't be lifeless.

The biggest sorrow in life is that you have no hope for the future, and the biggest habit in life is that you have no plan for your work.

Losers are often people who have only five minutes of enthusiasm, and winners are often people who persist until the last five minutes.

Progress cannot be made only by others, nor can it be made only by God. You can only make it by your own efforts and hard work, so you must stand on your own feet. Establish self-confidence, self-concept, thoughts and opinions, and then strive to improve yourself. As the saying goes, God's help is not as good as people's help.

Say a word of comfort for the embarrassed person; Say something encouraging for depressed people; For those who doubt, say something to wake up, and for those who are helpless, say something to support.

To sum up, to live is to get along with two kinds of people, one is yourself and the other is others. People everywhere are like drawing a circle, with consciousness and self-sufficiency as the center and compassion and altruism as the radius, drawing a circle of personal life time and space.

A smile costs nothing, but it is always valuable.

Smart people respect others' love for themselves, while stupid people hurt those who love themselves.

Brothers are not necessarily friends, but friends should be brothers.

Without friends, you will be lonely, without enemies, you will fail. Because friends are used to rely on, and enemies are used to stimulate potential.

Running on a road that doesn't suit you is like putting on a pair of shoes that don't suit you, which will make you very painful.

If the enemy makes you angry, it means that you are not sure to win him. If your friend makes you angry, you still care about his friendship.

If a person doesn't know which dock he is heading for, then no wind is downwind.

Humility is based on strength and confidence, while arrogance is based on emptiness and incompetence.

Anyone who uses hypocrisy as a weapon hurts himself before hurting others.

The most beautiful embroidery always blooms bright flowers in a dim background, and the most brilliant achievements are always produced in hard struggle.

A flower, whether in a bustling city or in a field, is not wasted as long as it works hard; If you are strong, you will not be abandoned. A person, no matter what kind of wind and rain he has experienced or what kind of life he has lived, is successful if he has worked hard, and it is worthwhile not to regret. The value of people lies not in their own value, but in the value of bringing positive energy to others; The meaning of life lies not in wealth, but in the truth of living. Don't lie, don't lie, don't lie, only those who treat them with heart are sincere, and it is possible to love them.

Although peony is beautiful, jujube flowers always bear fruit. It's better to cultivate one's mind than to decorate one's appearance, and it's better to impress others by silently enriching oneself. The beautiful face will eventually disappear in the folds of time, but the inner enrichment will make you exude irreplaceable charm. It doesn't matter if you are lonely, don't be empty when you are lonely; Nobody cares and don't panic, orchids bloom like valleys. Liveliness is the courage of many people; Lonely, but strong, flowers have their own bees and butterflies to love; People, with products, have their own bosom friends.

The mentality is light, and there is a true fate with the fate; Keep calm, happy and sincere. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. I don't like it, and I won't be sad if I lose it. You get it, you get it. Loss is experience. The heart is the master of all things, and it is easy to look down. Look at the glitz on the surface of others, and know the vicissitudes behind people; Envy the spring breeze on others' faces, and you should know what efforts they have made. Whether life is fair depends on how you look at it.

Don't waste time when you are young, it is true to enrich yourself; Don't regret when you are old, just have a cool aftertaste. Some things seem interesting, but they are not worth doing; Some things seem boring, but they are worth the effort. Fireworks are fleeting and prosperous, and their names are like echoes, leaving no trace. Pay attention to the pleasure of eyes and ears, and finally forget their due efforts; If you covet physical enjoyment, you will certainly ignore your instinct for progress. Live, don't waste time; Live and don't waste time.