Girls grow up without a home. Tell me about it.

1, Dad said: The man who treated you worse and worse at first wants to fall in love with you.

2. Dad said: The man who is getting better and better at first wants to marry you.

3. Marrying life can cultivate love. Marry love and you can die in life. The original home can't go back, and the current home can't be integrated.

4. After all, love can't live without drinking enough, or it's mainly rice, oil and salt. My husband's house can't go back.

Not every family is a haven. The girl has grown up and has no hope for her home. Not all girls can understand this sentence.

This sentence is too negative, and it is suspected of "poisoned chicken soup".

The so-called growing up without a home has two main meanings:

1. Girls always get married, and the water poured by the married daughter is an outsider to her family and is not qualified to divide the property;

A girl is a member of her husband's family after marriage, but she will never be the daughter of her mother-in-law. She can only be regarded as an outsider, and everything in her husband's family should be guarded against the girl.

And the so-called "I hope you will never understand this sentence" also has two meanings:

1. It expresses a good wish that girls are happy at home or in-laws' homes, so naturally there is no need to understand the meaning of this sentence.

This is a negative will. You'll never have to understand this sentence if you don't get married.

In a real marriage?

1. From family:

Legally speaking, a daughter who has never been married is an outsider, and all her parents are legal heirs except those who have made a will. If this daughter is a vulnerable group and has no ability to live independently, even if she is excluded by the will, according to the inheritance law, she still has her due share and will take care of it as appropriate.

Now most families are only children, and it's too late to hurt them. How can they treat their daughter as an outsider? Even if you get married, the door of your mother's house is always open to girls. Nowadays, many women rely on their parents to take care of their children and subsidize their families after they get married.

Therefore, this sentence is not valid from the family point of view.

2. From the husband's family:

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a headache.

Liu Lanzhi in Peacock Southeast Wind, a lovely and clever daughter-in-law, was forced by her mother-in-law to divorce her wife. In the end, one of them hung up the southeast branch and the other went to Qingchi, ending the love tragedy.

In the present marriage, there are indeed many situations in which it is difficult for daughter-in-law to integrate into her husband's family.

Because of the house problem

Now married, the house is a big head, for some families may be a lifetime savings, there have been many phenomena of rejecting daughter-in-law; As for the woman, in order to fight for her own rights and interests, she often asks to add her name and transfer her name.

In fact, both sides have their own reasonable starting point-from their own point of view. However, because of the ownership and distribution of this house, it has become a thorn in the young couple's mind, which has caused the man to be wary of the woman cheating on the house, and the woman feels that she is not recognized by this family, thus affecting the young couple's "small family" and making them unable to unite.

Because of the bride price

There are very few people who want bride price here, that is, 65438+20 thousand, not many. I didn't take this into account. Later, it was found that the bride price problem was very serious, and the Internet was talking about this thing:

The man paid a high bride price to marry the woman home. To some extent, the man feels superior to the woman, and some people think it is a kind of "buying" behavior. After the woman gets married, as long as she is slightly unhappy, she will feel inferior and cannot integrate into the family. This small family, which should be harmonious and beautiful, has become a part of the family's "property" rather than the role of "wife".

relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more pleasing she looks at her daughter-in-law.

Many women get married for a beautiful marriage. As a result, they found that they didn't get along well with their mother-in-law. If a man goes to his mother again, then the woman will be a complete stranger in this new home.

In fact, marriage is not so terrible. Even if you really have a bad life in your husband's family, there are legal weapons to help you. What are you afraid of?

Nowadays, women are very independent and have independent ability. As long as you want to create a home for yourself, you can give yourself a foothold and a warm and comfortable home with your own hands.