Can you speak directly? Why?

Talking too directly is called honest and frank. She is not scheming, easy to get along with, and trustworthy. Because such people often talk without thinking, everything she says is "heartfelt". When she is with her, there is no need to worry that she will bend around and hide anything.

However, this is actually an illusion. People are divided into many kinds. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds, and many girl are super "direct". This kind of directness is really hard to bear.

So, I still don't like people who speak too directly, because it is natural for a person to be kind and honest and frank, and it is impossible to change, but the way of speaking can still be changed. Speaking too directly hurts people, and it is easy to block people's breath. And most importantly, such people are likely to lose their old friends. After all, not everyone is big enough to tolerate this character.

I've been stuck in traffic many times, and I don't know if it's nature playing tricks on me. My roommates in high school and college have such a wonderful work.

In high school, there was a roommate who was very simple. She spoke very directly, and her emotions came quickly. Once, when she saw someone else plagiarizing in an exam, she sat with me at night and talked about plagiarism. She was so angry that she almost cried. At that time, I felt that my heart was shaken, and there were so many people in this world who were so plain in honest and frank. Therefore, when others want to copy her papers during the exam, they can only be shut out forever.

She is so honest and frank and so direct. She walks straight and never plagiarizes, but others' plagiarism makes her grades "decline" to some extent.

her directness is often out of date.

I remember once in the self-study class, I couldn't find my eraser, so I borrowed it from her. "xx, borrow your eraser."

"No."

"why?" My head quickly thought about what I had done recently to "sorry" her.

"If you don't give it, you don't give it. Why do you use mine?"

"I lost mine."

"If you lose it, you don't need it. You can't manage your own things well."

...

What have I done?

After all, we are roommates. We bow our heads and don't look up every day. When we get back to the dormitory, we will talk together. Many times, several of us have a smooth conversation. As long as she joins, it will be almost instantaneous. Everyone knows her personality and is unwilling to argue with her.

No one looks like sunshine and positive energy all day. There are always times when you are in a bad mood. At this time, talking to her is like killing yourself. She can spit out your overnight meal.

Therefore, it is not very good for her to get along with such people, and she speaks too directly. It is not bad for her to meet people who have the same temper, but she will definitely suffer when she meets people who have a bad relationship. Moreover, she is so honest and frank that it will be more difficult to tolerate more things in society in the future. I am really worried and surprised at her.

so I think it's better to be gentle, too rigid and easy to fold, too direct, which will do harm to others and yourself. Otherwise, we should implement the principle of "silence is golden", and it is good to say less. If you hide something in your stomach and don't say it, you won't get hurt.