Just saying, just listening, just saying.

Confucius once said, "Don't be poor and suffer from inequality, and don't be poor and worry."

When I was young, I was just catchy. When I grew up, I realized that human nature is so worrying.

Those who say with a smile that "the future is bright" will eventually become a thorn and be deeply rooted in their hearts.

The so-called growth is the process of gradually pulling this thorn out of your heart.

I saw a story told by the author in "Feeling":

After graduating from college for three years, I got together with some buddies in the dormitory.

After dinner, everyone chatted at the door.

At this time, when a buddy was arguing with his wife, he inadvertently said that he paid more than 200,000 taxes last year.

At that moment, my heart was mixed, heavier than happy.

One second, everyone was joking, and both of them laughed, but when everyone heard that he had paid more than 200,000 taxes, his face suddenly froze.

I feel stuffy in my chest and can't breathe.

I thought to myself, I can't even earn100,000 a year, and you paid 200,000 to 300,000 just by paying taxes. ...

Netizen sighed with emotion: Think about when you graduate from college, everyone says goodbye to each other and wishes each other "a bright future", but when your friends around you really have a bright future, will you really be happy for him from the heart?

I was deeply touched by the complaints of netizens.

Once, I was like him.

When I first graduated from college, everyone had similar conditions.

Without family and children, even if I just travel through the city for a meal, I feel particularly excited and run with great excitement.

Later, everyone bought cars one after another and once drove out to travel together.

Walking together, laughing all the way.

Almost three years. A friend in the circle changed X5 first. At first, everyone started booing and went up to experience it alone.

Later, I saw that he changed Paramera, but there were very few parties.

It was not until the end of last year that everyone had a meal together under his organization.

In private, I asked him what he had done all these years.

Friends didn't deliberately hide it.

A few years ago, the property market in Chongqing was very depressed.

Because he was optimistic about this industry, he mortgaged the house he bought and went to mortgage the house with a down payment.

After several knockouts, I also have some houses in my hand.

As a result, it happened to catch up with the outbreak of Chongqing property market, and he sold part of it.

In this way, friends realized the freedom of wealth.

We need to seriously digest the fact that he has become better.

I have to accept that the people who used to eat, drink and have fun with you have become better in front of you.

People are like this sometimes. We don't care if Mark's assets increase by hundreds of billions.

But watching a friend become excellent in a pair of trousers is not so easy to accept.

Because he is not in your circle, his extra 200 billion has nothing to do with you.

Your friends and classmates can't be richer than you. The better they are, the more mediocre you look.

Many people wish their ex a good life, but if he is really good, can you accept it calmly?

Only later, when you are in an ascending channel, can you sincerely wish others to become better.

Because, you are not the only outstanding person.

Fortunately, you are one of them.

I saw this story on LinkedIn:

Lao Wu is the department head of a company, and once recruited a female college student who just graduated as HR.

Once, Lao Wu communicated with her that the department may have overseas customers in the near future, and candidates with overseas study background can be used as extra points.

However, the candidates screened by HR were all domestic institutions of Yishui.

Seeing that other departments have collected several returnees, there are none here.

Lao Wu was guilty: "Now is the tide of returnees returning to China. Is his post so unpopular? "

With doubts, he went directly to HR to see if there were any fish that escaped from the net.

When he opened the resume box, he found that the resumes of more than 40 returnees had been completely erased.

Lao Wu lit the top of the skull and asked the director of human resources, "How are these recruited?"

She replied plausibly: "Returnees are a group of parallel imports who spend money to buy academic qualifications. They all feel good about themselves, so I just threw away their resumes."

After listening to the little girl's explanation, Lao Wu was dumbfounded

According to my colleague, the little girl's undergraduate degree is from two ordinary universities in China, but she never introduces her graduate school to the outside world.

On the one hand, it can cover up the shortcomings of academic qualifications, on the other hand, it scoffs at the high academic qualifications of returnees.

When I was young, my heart was always higher than the sky and my life was always thinner than paper.

It was not until the next day that I realized that I was not the center of the world.

In fact, in this world, people who are better than themselves abound.

You can get an annual salary of100000, and some people can get an annual salary of100000.

Some people earn 200,000 to 300,000 a year, while others earn 200,000 to 300,000 a year.

Money can never be earned, and people can never be the first in everything.

Instead of worrying about this, it is better to open your heart and accept the Excellence of others.

After years of vicissitudes, I dare to face up to my inner fragility.

No matter what life is like, we must always learn to run forward, or be embarrassed or proud.

A person begins to grow up, perhaps by facing up to his own heart.

Began to accept their own ordinary, began to accept the Excellence of people around them.

No longer expect to go with anyone, but only hope to walk through the rest of my life and face myself without regrets.

Life is always your own. No matter how good others are, they can only help themselves for a while, but not for a lifetime.

The warmest thing is that you are excellent, but I am not bad.

There may be a gap with you, but I am also trying to make progress.

May you and I take our truest selves with us, accompany us and miss our whole lives.