Some people say that "people who are hard-working are hard-working by nature". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

Life, understand and recognize fate, but don't be superstitious about it.

A person's life, no matter how good his fate is, has to go through a "bitter" stage. Everything is not static, good and bad are cyclical, but some people suffer more, some people have more good times, some are inevitable, and some are artificial.

We should keep a natural and honest attitude towards life, don't have fear in our hearts, hold the attitude that there will be a way in the end, be good but not evil, be positive, work hard and avoid misfortune.

Therefore, it is negative to say that "a man with a hard life is born with a hard life", and it does not conform to the real Yi-ology theory. Having this concept of "bitterness" in mind will have a very bad influence on a person's life, and naturally it will often be pessimistic and negative. If his "heart" is wrong, he will often make mistakes, thus amplifying the unfavorable factors.

Therefore, as a researcher of Yi Studies for nearly 30 years, I feel a little, very.

I don't agree with the statement that "people who are unlucky are born with hardships".

Man's life is predestined.

Bad people are really born. Let's say my sister and my niece, if not others.

When my sister was born, my father said it was a broken moon. I still can't tell what it is.

My sister passed away. Shortly after graduating from high school, our brigade recommended a place to go to college. The referee recommended my sister. The referee had already known my sister, but was provoked by a sentence from the battalion chief next door, and finally let the young man from another village go.

Later, she joined the route education team and lived in the team for several years. At the end of last century, most of her colleagues had pension subsidies, but she didn't do it for some reason.

The first husband left her and her children early because of liver cancer;

The second husband died of lung cancer;

Finally, her classmates introduced her to her third husband, and soon her lungs were out of order.

The youngest son had a cerebral infarction in his thirties, and his son-in-law died of illness.

You said her life was hard.

One of my nieces almost died when she was born.

The first husband I married as an adult was from my village, and my parents didn't want to, because the boy's grandmother was brought up by herself, lacking the love of her parents, and doing things a bit extreme. She insisted on getting married.

After marriage, when the child was three years old, because her husband cheated and divorced, the child was with her, and her husband did not give alimony.

I have a son after my second marriage. When the child was four years old, her husband cheated again and she divorced again. Although the youngest son was brought up by his father, he lived with his new girlfriend for less than a year and was sentenced to prison. The woman takes care of the children, but she has to give them living expenses.

She met her third husband online, and the other one was married three times. They agreed to live a good life together. As a result, she went home to wait on her father-in-law's death, and then waited on her mother-in-law several times in the hospital, holding her stool with her hands. In this way, I served two old people, and my husband still clamored for a divorce from her. Nominally because I don't have my own children, but my husband is also derailed.

Husband called his parents home together and said he wanted a divorce. Her parents watched her divorce that day.

No sooner had they divorced than the man brought a woman home.

Now she still works alone to earn money to support her two sons in school.

Is there anything worse in the world than her?

No matter how strong a person is, he can't fight his life.

There is some truth, but it is not complete. Because the environment where people are born has a lot to do with it. Born in an official family or a rich family, his fate must be better than others. On the other hand, people from poor families are affected by the environment. Except for a few who jump the dragon gate because of their efforts the day after tomorrow, most of them have a poor fate. So there is a saying that people's lives are predestined.