What did you understand after you got married?

1. If you discuss with the other half in advance after marriage, it is a cohabiting partner. You can't run your marriage the way you came from a family.

2. Be independent when you get married, even if your husband loves you very much and is good to you.

3, don't indulge in love, look at the lowest point of the other person's personality. Never find someone who has no taste in others but is good to you. Because you will find that when three or five years have passed and the novelty of love disappears, then it will only make you feel worse than others.

The most important thing to find the other half is character, not love. Love will die, but personality will not change easily.

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6. Even the closest people should be given absolute respect, relative freedom and enough care. Family chores must be done together and combined into one. Don't treat yourself as a nanny.

7. Most of the contradictions between husband and wife come from the invisible conflict between families. Try to create conditions to live separately from the elderly. But after living separately, be sure to go home often.

8. The daughter of a tough mother is generally tough, and the son of a tough mother is likely to be Ma Baonan.

9. You must have money in your hand.

10, don't get married too early.

Marriage is a matter for adults, not a game for children to play house. Don't get married like an adult when you lack financial ability and your mind is immature. Because it is not a promise, it is a responsibility.

1 1, first of all, you must have an independent personality to ensure that you can live a wonderful life without this person, and then you can have good love and marriage.

12, in-laws, mothers, mothers are three. Old people should be filial, paying attention to filial piety and their own lives are two different things. However, this measure is really difficult to deal with.

13, the economic foundation (the ability of being born in a family) determines the harmony between the superstructure and the family. But unlike those who have been poor together, I'm not talking about it. First of all, in today's society, no matter which industry, as long as you are willing to work hard, it will not be too bad. It is not that first-tier cities buy cars and houses. After all, don't bully poor teenagers I mean, looking at their families, it's not the worst in their same family situation. This is the bottom line. You know, apart from natural and man-made disasters, the worst thing that happens to a similar family must be an internal problem.

15, income is positively related to family status.

Suggestion: Never give up your job to be a housewife, even if you are a freelancer at home, you can't help making money unless you have stable investment or value-added fixed assets.

16, no matter how much you love at first, love will eventually die. Don't believe that love will last a lifetime.

If we still think that marriage is our love fresh-keeping room, the source of security, the Petri dish of existence and the breeding ground of value, it is a big mistake.

It can't give. What it can promise us is only two people, a relationship and an uncertain life. The rest was a personal accident.

17, marriage is not just that person, but often a family, so the personality of the other parents also determines the quality of marriage.

18, the most testing moment of their relationship must be the first few years of having children.