What should I do if I am rumored?

When rumors spread, you can deal with them in the following ways:

First, smile and ignore. The easiest way to throw cold water on it is to ignore it. When they think that you didn't respond, that you are not funny, or even that you are angry because you didn't get a response, their interest will gradually weaken.

Second, don't directly refute rumors, but do the right thing, establish the right image and speak with facts.

Make them aware of their boredom.

"Are you? It's so interesting! " This sentence seems to be a sense of * * *, which understands the psychological feelings of gossip makers and is actually a satire on the interests of the other party. People who are purely booing are actually self-aware. Because I like this atmosphere, I also come to join in the fun. When you make Ta realize his motives, Ta will feel boring instead.

Unexpected reaction

"Oh, really, why didn't I know?" It is not success that affects people, but asking questions that make them fall into a weak state again. It's not funny.

"XXX is really good! I feel very honored to pass the gossip with Ta! " For you, you will not only make the people who are rumored with you have a lot of face, but also prevent Ta from thinking that you don't like Ta's silence or counterattack, and bring your relationship closer. For those who spread gossip, it didn't affect people successfully, but gave Ta an opportunity to praise others and show grace, which was not fun.