My parents always like to arrange work for me, but I don't. What should I do?

When you were a child, you probably didn't like your parents to arrange your own life, did you? At least when I was young, I always thought I was unique and omnipotent. I always thought that with my talent and hard work, I would be able to break out of my own world. If I am an adult, I have my own ideas about life events and have the right to decide my own life, which is normal. Therefore, I can communicate with my parents completely. Why can't I refuse? Your life, not theirs.

My parents have crossed more bridges than you have. There is no parent whose starting point is not for the good of their children. Although you have a feeling that your life has been arranged now, times have changed and you will only go the way your parents have gone. Only in this way can you understand that there is a saying that cherishing words is like gold. Parents try their best to arrange your life in the hope that your life will be happier and everything will develop towards their parents' wishes. You are the master of your own life, and you can analyze your parents' arrangements as your experiences.

You can talk to them when you are mature. If nothing else, tell me about your age, your maturity, and that as an adult, you have independent thoughts and the right to choose yourself. First of all, parents feel that their children are immature and lack social experience (for example, many colleagues who come to work in Guangdong from Nanxian, Anhua, Yuanjiang and Taojiang counties in Yiyang, Hunan, 18 years old are more sensible.

This sentence was often heard by my best friend before, and I complained helplessly. I happen to be a person who has never been arranged by my parents, and I have my own ideas since I was a child. As long as I get the first place in the primary school exam, my father will buy me clothes. From primary school, I will decide to buy clothes. You should listen patiently. Parents are most concerned about your growth. They have certain social and life experiences. Let you take fewer detours and suffer less. However, you should know that their opinions can only be used as reference. In the end, you should be based on the actual situation.