Tell men not to get angry.

It only takes five steps to get a man to open his heart to you.

1, tell his emotions.

When you notice that he has emotional scars, such as his anger, uncleanness, purple eyebrows and inattention, tell his emotions. Words 1: "Baby, you look so angry/sad/lost today. What's wrong? " Speech 2: "Baby, are you in a bad mood today?"

If you control his emotions, you can elaborate a little. At this time, he may only say, it's no big deal, and he doesn't want to elaborate. It's okay. It's normal. This step is just to open the topic and let him know that you are paying attention to him.

2. Guide him to speak.

Men only like solving problems, not talking. He will think that in his field, you don't know as much as he does, and it's no use telling you. At this time, we should prevent him from using "you don't understand" to refuse. Speech: "I know I may not be able to help you solve the problem, but if you don't mind, can you talk to me?" Otherwise, I might worry for days. "Remember to use the correct tone.

At this time, men will basically talk about their problems. If you are sure there is a good method, you can simply mention it. If it inspires him, he will continue to ask questions. He doesn't have to say anything if he doesn't ask questions. Let him find a way. Avoid communicating with him from the perspective of "preacher".

3. Reward and encouragement

People can't do anything well when they feel inferior. At this time, help them find some confidence. With self-confidence, many things are solved. And some men may feel humiliated and embarrassed after admitting that they can't solve some things. At this time, we need to praise him and take care of his self-esteem.

Words 1: "In fact, it is very good that you can do this. After all, you don't know much about these things If you have more time, I believe you can do better. Speech 2: "This is something you are not good at. You see how many people can do so well in what they are not good at. Baby, you're already great. "

Step 4 hug

At this time, a man has exposed his weakness. When a person shows his weakness, it is when he doubts himself and is colored by his weakness. At this moment, he especially needs a kind of psychological support, but he often won't admit it or don't know how to let you know what he needs. Moreover, when he is weak, he won't listen to any comfort and encouragement from you. So the best way is to say nothing and hug him quietly. Usually you are in his arms, this time, hold him in your arms.

5. Continue to pay attention

After a while, it's usually his TOlm. When you get better, ask about the progress of this matter and let him know that you really care about him. If things are solved, remember him: you can handle it! "After all, there is no man who doesn't like praise. I believe that this way will definitely make your relationship take a big step forward, and he won't say anything to you when he encounters problems again.

But it should be noted that:

1, to achieve this goal depends on the timing, and the best time is when he encounters great difficulties.

2, let nature take its course, don't force questions, if the above method is used, he is still unwilling to speak, you can try again at another time and place, don't pursue it, so as not to be counterproductive.