Should a cancer patient tell him about his illness? If he does this, he may die quickly. What if he doesn't have unfinished wishes in a limited time?

I think the answer to this question will be closer to the emotional point of view if you have explained the relationship between this patient and you and your emotional intimacy.

If this person has a good psychological quality, he may accept it. I remember watching an American popular science program (dubbed in Chinese, of course) in junior high school, saying that some cancer patients' endogenous and calm attitude in the face of death will play a positive role in the recovery or remission of their illness, which means that if they accept it, they may live for a few more days ... I also think that if I know that I am going to die, then I am not afraid of death and I can compete with others. .....

But you said he might die soon, so what I said above is for reference only and it is risky. Next, I will talk about what may happen to people with poor psychological quality. If you are a person with poor psychological quality, or a person who often encounters misfortune or leads an unhappy life, you should look at his usual attitude towards misfortune. If a person is emotional or irritable, such bad news will undoubtedly add insult to injury and put pressure on his heart. Either accelerate your death, or change your character, or you may become an open-minded person ... You tell him the news and see how his reaction will be the next day. .....

It is insensitive to analyze the possibility of personality analysis in this way. Personally, I think you should tell him, because he will know one day. In the end, he may really have those unfulfilled wishes you said or want to see someone say something, but he has died of resentment. No one wants to see this, so you should tell him that it may make him happier in a limited time than before ... I hope you can tell him and give him more care at the last time, but you should pay attention to the way you express it when you tell him. Just now I thought cancer was a very unacceptable word. Whether you speak softly or lightly, it is a shock to him. I have an idea. You should let him know that he has less time left than others and prepare him to do what he wants, but don't talk about cancer. So you have to tell him a lie for sure and tell him that you have a very rare disease called Pattinson syndrome (I made it up, but I can't find it online). Doctors say it's not a disease, but a disease with abnormal metabolic rate and vigorous cell activity, which will accelerate the aging of human organs and tissues, so maybe you have less time left than normal people ... What we need to do is pay attention to our health, pay attention to our diet and cherish our time. ....

In this way, he knows that he doesn't have much time, and it is not easy to cause too much shock. He will slowly analyze his remaining time according to his physical condition. .....