What do you mean by talking?

Speaking is to express meaning and opinions in words.

Source: Tang Bai Juyi's poem "Old Ring": Proud Life, Long Talk. On the volume of "The Story of the Three Kingdoms", it is said: Guan Gong sees that flying is not grass, but words are exhausted. Zhou yuan Deqing "Hong Xiuxie Snow Puppet" song: * * I talked around the stove and told the children to sweep the snow and make tea. Chapter 19 of A Dream of Red Mansions: Let's lie down and have a good talk.

Speaking skill

1. Learn to listen: Don't show impatience when others talk to you. Listen patiently to what others say. If you have other different opinions, don't put forward your opinions until others have finished. Be gentle.

2, talk less, don't grab words, others don't make themselves clear when talking about a problem, you have to interrupt everything, and you can't tell why, which is very embarrassing.

Pay attention to your tone, don't always use harsh language to hurt people, and learn to put yourself in each other's shoes. Although sometimes you mean well, others can't accept what you say. In the long run, others will not want to associate with you.

4, don't talk big, always say that you are very capable, but when others need your help, you can't solve it, making it very embarrassing.

5. Think twice before you speak: Some people say that they are straightforward and straightforward. Don't take this for granted. Bad words in June hurt people. When you hurt someone too directly, don't expect to use "I'm sorry, I said it more directly" to remedy it. That's the weakest explanation. It's useless. The other person will remember your injury, so be sure to think twice before you act.

6. Look at people and talk: Saying different things to different people is not have it both ways, but tact and respect. There are two sets of chat stories for people who are not so familiar, or strangers, and for acquaintances. But if these two kinds of people appear at the same time, we should restrain our acquaintances a little and ask strangers more questions. Only by mastering some basic information can we judge what kind of person he is.

7. Learn to praise: I have to say that everyone likes to be praised and praised. In our life, praise is really rare. But it should be noted that praise must not be too much. Too many words will appear hypocritical and flattering, otherwise it will appear different, so it is best not to exceed three sentences. Praise is best from the heart, pay attention to skills, and be sudden.

8. Refuse questions that you don't want to answer: In life, you often encounter some embarrassing questions or questions that you don't want to answer. How can you refuse? This is very simple. You can directly "deal with a man as he deals with you" and ask. It can not only divert attention, but also remind each other. If the other person keeps asking questions, then you can remind him directly.