A group you don’t know-Tongfu

What is a co-husband?

You may have heard of this word for the first time, or you may have understood it to mean something else.

For Tongfu, this is a name that brings regret, pain and even despair.

It refers to lesbian husbands (straight men), which is a more marginalized and secretive group than gay wives.

And I was once one of them.

Now, more than two years after leaving that terrible role, the despair in my heart has faded, replaced by the current sense of happiness.

Let’s talk about homosexuality first. If there is something unreasonable about it, don’t blame it! Forgive my innocent speculation.

Homosexuals are a sensitive group that needs to be taken care of. Most of them live discreetly and hide their sexual orientation. They will feel lonely. Of course, many of them live a free and happy life.

There is such a set of data on Baidu Encyclopedia: In 2004, Professor Zhang Beichuan, a well-known expert on homosexuality in China, estimated that the number of lesbians in China was about 10 million, just like gay men. In 2014, according to average statistics from the Academy of Sciences, the number of homosexuals in China could reach 70 million, including more than 30 million gay men and about 35 million lesbians.

What is certain is that this data will continue to increase. When you open some software, you will find that there are so many around you. Maybe he is the person around you, maybe your friend, or maybe he is a passerby you met on the road today. But don't be afraid, most of them are kind, and even more careful, creative, and better than us people with "straight" attributes. They treat their friends very well, and I'm lucky to have a few straight and gay friends like that. Sensitivity is probably part of their nature, and they can get very irritable when their temper comes. Of course, it goes quickly.

On behalf of myself, I call on our lovely motherland to improve relevant laws earlier. They also need to be taken care of. They also know how to love and need to be loved and protected.

When you see this, you may be thinking, isn’t it about homosexuality? Why don't you talk about something else? Yes, I can't generalize. Let’s talk about the handful of “bad” ones.

Among homosexuals, there will be some who, for various reasons and reasons, find a straight man (straight woman) to get married. This group of people, believe them, they are very bad. The co-wife or co-husband is the victim, used to borrow the womb or sperm. Then, while despising the support of straight men and straight women, they spurn straight men and straight women. Yes, that's it. Straight men and straight women are kept in the dark, stupidly thinking that they have failed in some way, and basically just put up with it. Those who are very bad will use all kinds of cold violence or violence, one is willing to be beaten and the other is willing to suffer. If you have children, endure it for the sake of them! In the end, it’s straight men and women who suffer. Oh, no, it’s so bad that it causes pain, but they feel that this pain is caused by straight men and straight women, and then they torture straight men and straight women in various ways. This is probably the darkness of human nature.

That’s it for now. If you think you may have stepped into a trap, you can leave a message