My 45-year-old mother is pregnant. Should I have this baby?

My parents divorced when I was five years old. At that time, I was still young, and I didn't know what was the main reason for my parents' divorce. I just vaguely heard my grandmother say that my mother wanted to go out to work to earn money, but my father wouldn't let me. My father was a little old-fashioned and felt that the society outside was unsafe at that time. If my mother goes out to work like this, the family will be separated. Mother can't accept her father's pedantic thoughts. She wants to go out to work.

But I don't think this is the main reason for my parents' divorce. I was so young at that time, I guess my grandmother said this to comfort me. After my parents divorced, I have no grandmother and have been living with her. My parents send her living expenses every month. Until I was in junior high school, my father saw that my academic performance was good, so he took me back from my grandmother's house, because at that time my father had a house in the city, not my father's, but my stepmother's.

My father chose to remarry because my mother didn't come back after going out for so many years. I didn't think my mother could come back, so I remarried. Father and stepmother remarried, just had a wedding banquet, and didn't go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate. I don't know why they didn't go. Although I was only five years old when my mother divorced my father, I should have no impression of my mother, but even so, I don't like my stepmother.

My stepmother likes playing mahjong very much. She is in the mahjong room almost 24 hours a day. After losing her salary, she asked her father for money. Until the father and stepmother got married for eleven years, the father also paid hundreds of thousands of gambling debts to his stepmother. My father was fed up with my stepmother, so he separated from her. Father and stepmother separated without a marriage certificate. At this time, my mother came back.

I started to fix up my parents, and I wanted them to remarry. Anyway, my father and stepmother have been separated for a long time, and my father and mother also know my intention. Mom and dad also bought a house in my name, so our family of three finally got together. On this day, I came home and saw my mother vomiting in the toilet. I studied medicine in college, and my major was obstetrics and gynecology. Now he also works in the obstetrics and gynecology department of our hospital. I just want to ask.

Who knows that as soon as I finished, my mother said, yes, I just found out that I am discussing with your father whether to have this baby. I was scared by my mother. It never occurred to me that my 45-year-old mother was pregnant. Pregnancy at this age should be rare! At dinner in the evening, the three of us discussed this topic very seriously. My mother meant to keep the child, and my father promised to remarry with her, and said that he would go to the civil affairs bureau for a while to get a marriage certificate from her mother.

Although I am going to be a sister soon, I am still unhappy, because I heard from my cousin that during this time, my stepmother found her father again. What will my mother do if my father continues to be so entangled with her stepmother? When my father was not at home the next day, I advised my mother not to have children. After all, my mother is not young, and so is my father. As far as I know, my father and mother's money have been used to buy this house. My father is 50 years old. My father's job is manual labor, and he can do it for a few years. It costs a lot of money to raise a child now.

When I said this, my mother was silent. Although I really want to talk about the relationship between my father and stepmother, I am afraid that my mother will be sad. After all, my mother really wants to remarry her father, and I don't want her to be sad. As for my advice to my mother not to have children, that's just my consideration. Finally, I will support any decision my mother makes, because I am her daughter!