What are the obvious differences between mother-in-law and mother's treatment of you after giving birth?

I don't think the attitude of the two old people towards me has changed. They all love me very much. I don't know about other people's homes, but when I gave birth, my mother and mother-in-law did their best for me.

First, when I gave birth, I waited until my fingers were fully open because I wanted to give birth naturally. But before I fully opened my fingers, I couldn't help but want to give birth quickly. Because the labor pains continued and I was in agony, I went to the doctor for examination, accompanied by my husband and mother-in-law. Let me first talk about whether my mother-in-law was my husband's stepmother, not my mother.

Because it was the first time I gave birth to a child, I was very scared, and the doctor was careless, which made me very painful and I cried at that time. My mother-in-law couldn't bear to shed tears when she saw me like this. I didn't expect this scene, because my mother-in-law is a timid person, but she is kind.

After that, the baby was born, and my mother-in-law was as kind to me as before. I also tried my best for my children, so I am very grateful to her. Because my mother-in-law will respect me and help me from beginning to end. There is no change in my attitude towards me because of the birth of the child. I am very satisfied to have such a mother-in-law, because tolerance and understanding are too important in a family, and the mother-in-law does very well.

For example, once my baby fell ill, my mother-in-law discussed with me what to do, and she also made some suggestions herself. My husband was not at home, only we were alone, and no one would make a forced decision, and finally she weighed the pros and cons and did it. My mother-in-law stayed in the hospital all night without any complaints. This is a good person and grateful.

and my mother-in-law likes to cook good food for me when I am married, and she still likes to cook it for me after giving birth. You can feel what a woman is really good to you, and she is very happy.

Let's talk about my mother's attitude towards me later. I think my mother wants me to be more mature, because she has become a mother, so she won't communicate with me as she used to. What we have to do now is to raise children, so we should be wiser in mind than before.

For example, in parenting, my mother is stricter than me. Although she is an old man in her sixties, she will not let herself fall behind in handling things, but she is more flexible and active than us young people. My mother always said that she couldn't use their previous methods to raise children. She was backward and not suitable for the present family.

For example, what my baby should learn at each stage, I sometimes feel indifferent after knowing it, but my mother will always pay attention to the child's movements and suggest what I should let my child learn. Moreover, my mother will continue to regard me as her big baby, and will strictly ask me to do well in other aspects, but when we get along in private, my mother will become my childhood state and spoil me constantly.

On the whole, I was lucky not to meet such a harsh and unreasonable mother-in-law. I think everyone around me loves me. Of course, this is my case, which doesn't mean that other people's families are like this. My best friend's family has become upset after giving birth, and they fight every day, and the two families are locked in a fight. My best friend said that she immediately recognized "who is a person and who is a dog" after giving birth to a child.

so I can only be glad that I didn't meet such a family. But I hope my children will never meet. There is no happiness.