As the saying goes, "a good man is afraid of asexual anti-convexity, and a good woman is afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concavity". What does it mean? Does this make sense?

"Good men are afraid of asexuality, and good women are afraid of depression." What exactly does this proverb mean?

"Good man" refers to an excellent man, "convex" refers to difficulties and setbacks in progress, and "sex" refers to humanity and responsibility. The whole sentence means that an excellent person must first have lofty ideals and goals, and will encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges in the process of struggle. At this time, you must be tenacious and indomitable, and you can't give up halfway, so that you can see the dawn of victory and realize your ideals.

"Good woman" refers to a gentle and virtuous woman, and "concave" refers to showing the advantages of a woman when her husband and children do housework. "Miao" here refers to women's opinions and ideas. The whole sentence is a gentle and virtuous woman, who should be hardworking and kind, have her own ideas and opinions, and can't be pushed around and live in a muddle.

This sentence is still very reasonable, especially in today's society, men should hold their heads high and women should make a difference and have their own thoughts and careers.

Many people have heard the old saying. In fact, this sentence has been very popular in ancient times, especially among rural people. Although some proverbs are easy to read and understand, you will find that they also contain rich philosophy and can teach people a lot of truth. For example, I recently heard a saying that "a good man is afraid of thirty, and a good woman is afraid of eighteen". So what does this sentence mean? Let me tell you something about it.

At first glance, many people don't understand this proverb. Why do good men have to be "convex" and afraid of thirty? To understand the meaning of this sentence, we must understand the word "convex". In ancient times, men had a high status and were superior to women. Moreover, ancient men were generally waizhai, similar to convex characters, so the word "convex" in this sentence has no special meaning. One refers to a man, and so does the other.

So good people are afraid of thirty, which actually represents a kind of psychology. Thirty years old is the best time for a man to start a career. If he has not achieved anything at this time, it will be much more difficult to succeed in the future. Therefore, many men will inevitably feel a little anxious at this time, but it also means that those who are motivated and have ideas about the future will be afraid, while those who are not enterprising will have no feelings, so it is reasonable for a good man to be afraid of thirty.

As for the second half sentence, it is actually simpler. Concave and convex are opposites and are also used to describe women. For most women, eighteen is also the age they are most afraid of, because at this time, their daughter will get married. For ancient women, marriage is the most important period in their lives, and they will have a happy life in the future. If they don't get married well, they will live happily, so it is inevitable to get married at eighteen. Moreover, after a woman gets married, being a daughter can't do whatever she wants. She has to support her family and educate her children, so for a woman, she is also afraid of this age.

Of course, the saying that a good woman is afraid of being eighteen does not apply in modern times. Modern women don't have to get married early. Eighteen is the age to study. Just look at it and don't take it seriously.

We will also face many things or age groups that we don't want to face in our life, so we should have the spirit of struggle, whether ancient or modern. Don't be afraid to give up because of a little setback. Running away won't solve the problem. Although we are temporarily unsuccessful, don't give up. This may also be what this proverb wants to teach us.

Men are "convex" and women are "concave", one is yang and one is yin, one is rigid and the other is soft.

As the saying goes, "Good men are afraid of asexuality" and "Good women are afraid of infertility". Many people don't know what it means after reading it. Let's talk about it today.

"Good men are afraid of asexuality", and the "sex" in it, don't get me wrong, here refers to men's character and character. It means: an excellent man, a successful man, must highlight his personality and have his own opinions if he wants to succeed.

"Good men are afraid of being asexual" means telling everyone that a man should have responsibilities, ideals, firm beliefs and courage. Not afraid of any difficulties, we must persevere and realize our great dreams.

As for the word "convex", this "convex" not only means breaking through the ground, being positive and indomitable. "Convex" also symbolizes men's pursuit of fame and success. There may be many setbacks in a person's life, which can make him grow up through tempering and gradually become brilliant.

"Good women are asexual and afraid of seedlings", and "seedlings" refers to seedlings. The meaning of this sentence is that a woman with good nature should also have her own opinion and personality, otherwise, just like there are no seedlings in the field, the land will be abandoned.

Afraid of no seedlings, that is to say, women should not blindly rely on men, and it is best to have their own opinions. Otherwise, it will be like a young seedling just emerging from the ground, which can't stand a little trouble and is easy to die.

As the saying goes, "a good man is afraid of asexuality when he is convex" and "a good woman is afraid of not growing seedlings when she is concave". Very vivid, which means that men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside, and there is also the meaning that men are strong and women are weak. Although convex and concave are opposite, one is yin and the other is yang. One is rigid and the other is flexible. Only when they are combined, is the best combination. Men work hard outside and women do housework at home. This is the happiest family.

Good men are afraid of asexuality and anti-convexity, and good women are afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concavity. There is some truth in this statement, and the meaning is not difficult to understand. Good men and women are easy to understand, that is, high-quality men and women. The key lies in the understanding of convexity and concavity, asexuality and seedlessness.

Yin and Yang of men and women are relative, the rigidity of heaven and earth is relative, and the rigidity of men and women is the essential feature of men and women. Concave and convex are also relative, and male convex and female concave are also a feature of men and women. Men should only be convex and women should be concave, which is the nature of men and women. A good man and a good woman should highlight their legitimacy. If they don't show their true nature, they are not good men and women.

Fear is always related to people's psychology, which means worry and sadness. Asexuality refers to the sexual desire of both men and women, the personality characteristics of men, and by extension, the wisdom, courage and ability of men. A good man should highlight his personality and show his wisdom, courage and ability to be a good person, so what a man is most worried about is being asexual, unable to show his ability and unable to make achievements, which is also what a man is most afraid of. There is a seedling, and there is no seedling. As a woman, fear of no seedlings means that a woman can't have children and have no offspring. In people's minds in the past, a woman's greatest feature was that she was a good wife and mother, and she had a bright future. Women can't have children, and no offspring is their biggest concern. It is a woman's greatest regret that she can't have children because of her husband's honor. If you are a good man, you will dominate, you will build a career and wealth, if you are a good woman, you will be able to have a prosperous family. This truth has been said in the past and still needs to be said now.

A person's life can't be all smooth sailing, with bumps and tribulations. When we encounter misfortunes and hardships, should we face them bravely or shy away?

In fact, the ancestor's statement tells us the answer: a good man is afraid of asexuality and a good woman is afraid of depression.

The literal meaning of this proverb is quite different from its original meaning. Let me be specific:

Good men are afraid of asexual "good men", which of course refers to excellent men with ideals and ambitions;

"Convex" can be understood as the success of career and fame;

"Asexuality" refers to a man's character or personality.

It means that a good man will not lose his personality when he pursues his career and fame.

Life comes once in a blue moon. Even if there is no spirit of "don't break Loulan, don't give it back", my hero should set goals for his ideals and fight for them.

A man has a heavy responsibility on his shoulders. There are parents to support, women to take care of, and the responsibility of the whole family is tied together.

But even if you encounter setbacks and failures, you should not just be Nuo Nuo. Everything depends on others, and you must believe that you can survive.

We will encounter many troubles in life, but no matter how difficult it is, don't lose your character.

Life is not easy, life is only a few decades, and good people are rewarded.

The ancients said that "man can conquer nature",

I believe you can remove all obstacles that hinder your future.

A good woman is not afraid of depression. Concavity is the antonym of convexity. The concavity is reminiscent of an industrious woman.

We often say that a good wife and mother, a good woman, for the sake of family tireless work, take care of parents and children, take care of the worries at home.

In this way, mutual support, concave and convex, make up a perfect family and life.

"Afraid of not growing seedlings" means that in ancient times, women's status was relatively low, and they gradually became subservient to men because of the constraints of three obedience and four virtues and feudal ethics.

Just like a newly planted seedling, it has no ability to stand on its own feet.

In modern society, women are also paying attention to independence. Many women can support themselves by buying a house and a car by their own efforts. In many industries, some women hold up half the sky.

In the complicated modern society, women must maintain the ability of independent thinking, have their own opinions and don't blindly rely on men.

It is difficult to be a man, and it is even more difficult to be a good man and a good woman.

Men should stand at 30, and women should hold up half the sky. As long as they make up their minds, no matter how difficult the road ahead is, they can still find a loyal wife.

As the saying goes, "a good man is afraid of asexual anti-convex, and a good woman is afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concave." What do you mean? Does this make sense?

As the saying goes, "a good man is afraid of asexual anti-convex, and a good woman is afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concave." What the hell does that mean?

First, good men are afraid of being asexual. The "sex" here refers to the meaning of "character" and one's own ideals and ambitions. , that is, an excellent man. He must be promising, responsible, and have his own personality and opinions. In the face of difficulties, I have the courage to challenge, and I have always been firm, not only in Nuo Nuo, but also will not go with the flow.

In ancient times, men were superior to women. A person's personality determines whether he will achieve something in the future. A person's character is very important. Whether in ancient times or in today's society, personality can affect a person's fate. An excellent person has a firm will and great ambition. When dealing with things, he has his own opinions and foresight, and he can make the right decision at the critical moment. As long as they believe, he will stick to it, even if

A good man must have his own personality. If he has no personality of his own, what's the difference between him and a walking corpse?

Second, good women are not afraid of depression. The ancients believed that a woman would not be an excellent woman if she had no responsibility and independent mind. In ancient times, women had a low status and were accessories of men. They have no family status and receive limited education. Except for powerful families, ordinary women rarely receive education.

The mission of ancient women came from taking care of their husbands and educating their children, and from housekeeping. A woman who has no personality and independent mind will also have a huge negative effect on the family. First, under the child's subtle influence, she will affect the child's character, become irresponsible, pursue, and eventually lead a mediocre life. It's hard to get ahead. A woman who has no responsibility and opinions will affect the fate of the whole family and save less money.

These proverbs have been circulating for thousands of years, but they still have some truth. They also warned men that they must take responsibility, take the initiative to take responsibility at home, and actively have their own opinions and opinions. Women should not put all their hopes on men, but also strive to strive for a better life with their own opinions, make themselves better and make men respect themselves more.

This old saying is also very useful in today's society. Now men and women are equal. Both men and women should shoulder their responsibilities, don't rely too much on actors, and be independent and thoughtful.

An excellent woman must be a good wife and mother in the family. She won't go with the flow and will have her own opinions. On the contrary, if a woman vacillates in life, it will not bring benefits to her family and life.

A person's life, there is a Ma Pingchuan, there are ups and downs. When we encounter ups and downs, should we face them bravely or choose to escape timidly? In fact, the old saying in the countryside has given us the answer: a good man is afraid of asexuality and a good woman is afraid of depression. The old saying always sounds so intriguing. Following my topic, let's talk about what this old saying means. Does it make sense?

Good men are afraid of asexuality. Here, "sex" refers to personality and lineage. As the saying goes, "Good people are rewarded" means that good people should dare to fight hard. The "convex" here can be understood as the ups and downs or various threshold obstacles encountered in life. That's easy to understand. We can interpret it as: when a good man encounters ups and downs in life, he must be as brave as a man to face it and take responsibility.

"Good people are afraid of thirty" suddenly reminds me of such a similar rural old saying, which is similar to the meaning of "good people are afraid of no character". It's not easy to be a good person. When he was a child, he could play carefree. But once married, he is faced with supporting his elderly parents, raising children and being kind to his daughter-in-law. This burden falls on men, without any blood and courage, okay?

Good women are afraid of depression The "seedlings" here naturally refer to rice seedlings in rice fields. The "repression" here can be understood as unspeakable grievances, intolerable contradictions and disputes. From farmers transplanting rice seedlings to paddy fields, seedlings have to rely on themselves to resist wind and rain, sun exposure and various pests and diseases. When a woman marries a wife, she will encounter many hardships, such as taking care of her husband, educating her children, facing the disaster of her in-laws, gossiping about her neighbors and so on. But in order to live in harmony with her family and the healthy growth of her children, she had to bear it alone, just like rice fields and rice seedlings.

"A good girl is afraid of being eighteen", as the saying goes, "An eighteen-year-old girl is a flower", when she was a little girl. You can pamper yourself and your parents love you. But once you get married and become a wife, if you want to get everyone's praise, you must be able to "go to the kitchen in the hall", face the influence of daily rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and have the courage to distinguish right from wrong.

Conclusion: It is difficult to be a man, and it is even more difficult to be a good man and a good woman. Life is alive and not tempted by all kinds of bad habits. It is not easy to be a good man and a good woman. Men should "stand at the age of 30" and women should "hold up half the sky", but as long as they are firm in their minds, even in adversity, there will be times when the clouds will be lifted and the sky will be seen again.

Read more books and listen to good words. Don't be afraid of difficulties 30 years ago, and you won't regret the past 30 years later.

As a young man who is particularly interested in history and culture, I am interested in many things handed down from generation to generation, such as some rural old sayings and proverbs. Many of them are lessons learned by ancestors who have gone through thousands of years through their own life experiences. Through the proof handed down from generation to generation, it is passed down to future generations and becomes the code of conduct and reference for future generations to do things. I have also absorbed countless nutrients from these teachings.

Today, let's talk about an old saying: "Good men are afraid of asexuality and anti-convexity, and good women are afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concavity." This sentence is very useful in ancient times, but it is also useful to connect with modern times.

Good men are afraid of asexuality.

"Good man" of course refers to an excellent man or an ambitious man; "Convex" can be understood as "positive", indicating the success of fame, career, etc. "Asexuality" does not mean no sexual desire, but refers to a person's character or character.

The understanding of the whole sentence can be that an excellent man can't pursue his career or fame without his own personality.

Life is not easy, it is rare to go once. Li Bai said: Since God has given talents, let them be employed! . Even if you don't have the lofty ambition of "don't break Loulan, don't give it back", you should set goals for yourself and fight for your ideals. Life is not easy, youth is fleeting, and life is only a few decades. As a seven-foot man, you should set your goals as soon as possible and constantly strive for strength.

For men, the responsibility on their shoulders is very heavy. There are parents to support, families to support, and the inheritance of the next generation. The burden of the whole family is tied to our heads. Many times, we will be miserable by life, as TV says: adults are not as good as dogs. Even if you encounter all kinds of setbacks, you are not afraid. I believe you can overcome the difficulties and tide over the difficulties. After the storm, it is a rainbow.

We will meet many people and things in our life, and encounter all kinds of grievances and setbacks. We can't lose our character. Nuo Nuo, who obeys others blindly, will never be able to keep the bright sunshine. Instead, he will gradually lose his own character in the society, drift with the tide, and eventually achieve nothing and become a stepping stone for others. We men, in particular, can't obey fate because of setbacks. The ancients also said: man can conquer nature. I believe you can remove all obstacles that hinder your future.

Good women are afraid of depression

In ancient times, the status of women was quite low, especially after the Song Dynasty, which was deeply controlled by ideas. It is virtue that makes women have no talent, and women have to obey the three virtues, etc., which stipulates everything for girls and gradually becomes a vassal of men. This "concave" is the antonym of a man's strength, that is, he is too weak. He always obeys his husband, has no thoughts of his own, and only works hard at home and teaches his children. In the long run, it is easy to lose the ability of self-independence, just like the newly inserted seedlings swaying from side to side, without the ability to stand on their own feet.

Now the society is paying attention to women's independence, and there are new women in the world. Many girls can buy cars and houses to support themselves and never want to rely on men. In many careers, women also hold up half the sky. However, there are still many girls who still want to find michel platini's godfather to support them, rather than relying on their own hands to struggle. In this complex society, girls must have their own independent thinking ability, and don't live by men alone. Men nowadays rely on many girls and have no more sense of responsibility.

When Cao Yunjin and Tang Tong divorced, it caused an uproar, and many women in the circle of friends forwarded it over and over again. Because after Tang Tong and Cao Yunjin got married, she gave birth to a child. She has no job, is not a big shot, and has no financial resources during the period of raising children and giving birth. The two sides quarreled constantly for family reasons and finally ended in divorce.

This is true of stars with high incomes, not to mention that most of us are petty bourgeoisie. A family is composed of both men and women, and it is most important for both sides to work together. Even if men love you again, girls should learn to be independent.

The phrase "I support you" only exists in the movies of Master Xing. Life without a princess, you must not be disgusted with the princess, you still have to rely on yourself in life.

There used to be a saying in the countryside that "good men are afraid of asexuality and anti-convexity, and good women are afraid of not raising seedlings and anti-concavity". What does this sentence mean? Let me explain it to you one by one:

As the saying goes, "convex" stands for male and "concave" stands for female.

A good man is a tall, powerful, tough and handsome man. It's not enough to look like a man. This kind of man is most afraid of not having a distinct personality.

The "asexuality" here refers to personality, character and character, not sexual desire.

To sum up, "good men are afraid of asexuality" means that decent men are afraid of not having a unique personality. To put it bluntly, a good man is afraid of having no ideas, following the crowd, echoing others' opinions, not being tough, not having a distinct personality, being afraid of offending people, being a good man, and often muddling along, belonging to the swing.

For this phenomenon, there is a saying in the countryside that "men have no ideas and are poor all their lives".

There is such a person in the countryside who looks terrible in appearance, but in fact he is a cowardly and incompetent person. Men should pay attention to their self-cultivation and inner temperament, and will not give up until they reach their goals. This is a good man who can live up to the word "convex".

"Good women are afraid of having children" means that beautiful women are most afraid of not having children. The word "Miao" here refers to having a child.

What is a good girl? Beautiful appearance, looks very gentle. These are all external beauty, and these are useless. After all, marrying a wife is to make a living, not to be a vase.

A beautiful and gentle woman is most afraid of having an affair with an almond and having a hard time. It's like having an old hen at home, but she always goes to other people's houses to lay eggs. The most terrible thing is the hen that doesn't hold its nest.

In the ancient patriarchal society, women were accessories of men, and women carried on the family line for men. A barren woman violates the ancient "seven births", that is, her husband can take such a woman back to her family.

To sum up, a good woman is good in all aspects. If she can't live and have children, this is the most fatal flaw.

Of course, with the development of society, men and women are equal, and it is not a big deal that women can't have children. There are many "Dink" families now, as long as the husband and wife love each other.

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This proverb is actually a rural proverb. "Good men are afraid of asexuality, and good women are afraid of childlessness". Protrusion refers to male characteristics, depression refers to female characteristics, which can be understood as feminization, sex refers to personality, and seedling refers to raising offspring. On the whole, that is to say, an excellent man must have masculinity and distinctive personality. If you only have a man's "bulge" but no man's masculinity, you are timid and indecisive, you are not a good man, or even a man.

An excellent woman is not only beautiful, but also gentle and virtuous. More importantly, she should be able to have children and teach her husband. If you only have a woman's "concave", but wear a lost face, you are unruly and overbearing, you can't have children, you can't be a good woman, or even a woman.

Although these were the ancient criteria for judging a good man and a good woman, they are still reasonable today. For example, men should be like men, not only handsome, but also manly, decisive, enterprising, responsible and loving their wives. But some young people nowadays, although they have good skin, lack masculinity, especially some film and television actors, who speak sissy and even make their fingers blue, are not good men and even disgusting.

There are also some men who are grumpy, have a temper, have no skills, can't be violent at home, and often drink and beat their wives. Such a man is not a man. Nowadays, although women don't want to survive children, they must be gentle and virtuous and honor the elderly.

In short, no matter what age, men should be like men and women should be like women.