Is there the best way to deal with villains?

First, you should pay attention to art when talking to villains. The villain also has a good side. If a villain is kind to you, I think you should be kind to him, too! While being kind to him, advise him not to do bad things, but to be emotional and rational. Everyone is talking about interests, and people are also talking about feelings. If your persuasion can make the other person feel that if he doesn't do what you say, he will suffer greatly, then he has reached a high level of persuasion. I think that in ancient Wei Zhi, it is commendable that a person with such a straightforward temper dared to offend the emperor's spirit, but if he can use some art of speaking and don't be so ugly when he remonstrates with the emperor, maybe the emperor will value him more. Fortunately, Li Shimin was a good emperor, and he could listen to such ugly words. If another emperor changed, it is estimated that Wei Zhi would have died long ago, and a generation of loyal ministers died unjustly, which is not worth it.

Therefore, I think the art of speaking is very important. If the same meaning is expressed in different languages, people will feel different comfort. Everyone wants to be praised by others, to hear good things, and not to hear criticism and curses. This is human nature. People can make full use of this point of human nature and, to put it mildly, make others willing to accept their own opinions. People in our family are straight-tempered, so sometimes it's easy to offend people by speaking. Because of this, I hope I can speak more artistically and learn and try slowly.

Second, we should also pay attention to art when dealing with villains. I don't think we can deal with villains face to face, because villains can calculate, and gentlemen are often no match for villains. If we are against villains, we must deal with them. Many times, the villain is in power. I think the reason why villains gain power is that on the one hand, many people dare not oppose villains and submit to humiliation; On the other hand, the reason is that a gentleman is no match for a villain. To deal with a villain, I think we should treat him as a villain. Some people may say that a gentleman does not become a villain by using the method of a villain. I don't think so. I think whether you are a gentleman depends on whether you have done something out of line and whether you are kind. If the eradication of villains is for the benefit of the people, we might as well use a little strategy in means. In so many wars in ancient times, it is not who wins with more troops, but depends on strategy. The word strategy is a neutral word, and often the enemy uses strategy, which is called cunning, while our strategy is called resourcefulness. Since the villain is insidious and cunning, we should be more resourceful to deal with him. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will lose your wife and lose your soldiers. If it is not handled well, it will be calculated by the villain.

I think the best way to deal with a villain is to shoot him with confidence, so that he can never turn over and pose no threat to himself. It is best to use this method with absolute certainty, otherwise you will suffer if you don't make a move. The bad guys didn't get rid of them, but hurt themselves. Not worth it. If you can't shoot him to death at once, take another strategy: kill him secretly, and he still thinks you are a good man. This method is a hypocrite and a good way to protect yourself. However, this method must make the other party not know that you killed him before being photographed.

As for tolerance, I think tolerance should be used in the right place. If tolerance is used to connive at villains' evil deeds, it is aiding the evil. Tolerance should be used when villains are defeated. Give him a break and give him a chance to turn over a new leaf. However, it also depends on what kind of villains are treated. Some villains are hard to change, and no matter how tolerant they are, they will still commit iniquity. Then simply don't be tolerant; If it is better to have a correct attitude, be tolerant of him, forgive others and give him a chance to correct his evil deeds.

Because the villain doesn't care about his image in the public, everyone knows that he is a villain. In this case, dealing with villains has a mass base and is easy to deal with. And hypocrites, often disguised well, it is difficult for the world to distinguish their true colors, so it is even harder to deal with such people. I think, to deal with a hypocrite, we can attack him by taking advantage of his weakness of caring about the public image; Or use him to do something good.