After selling the house to support my brother in business, my parents' attitude reminded me of my ex-husband's advice. What do you think of her attitude?

Two months ago, a friend and others partnered to open a milk tea shop. Recently, he sent a circle of friends, saying that his money could not be turned over, and only fifty dollars were left to live. I gave him a red envelope, and later he felt it and talked to me more.

What I said was nothing more than my mental journey of starting a business, and also introduced me to Amway, the characteristics of his store, the profit and loss of the store now, and the hard work of starting a business.

As for me, I just listened and didn't give him much advice. I know my friend is a three-minute old man, so I told him to keep honing and not to be afraid of hard work. Other than that, there is nothing else.

Later, Heipi asked me, do you know that his tea shop can't be opened? Why don't you persuade him to quit, but stick to it? Isn't this a lie to him?

In fact, when he opened the store, I already knew about the store and found the problem long ago. It is easy for outsiders to see that his tea shop is not long.

First of all, he is in partnership with four people, and his shares are very small. Secondly, the location is not bad, but the brand of milk tea is unknown, the competition is fierce and the rent is high.

And his so-called product features are really not attractive. They are all in the market. Those brands are very famous, not worse than what he did, but the price advantage is more prominent.

Why don't I persuade him? The reason is very simple, because most of the time, he doesn't know anything in his heart, but it's useless for others to persuade him. He won't turn back until he sees the facts clearly and hits the south wall.

I listened to him from the beginning, and he took out all his savings and put all his eggs in one basket to start a business. He never thought about going back, and his expectations were high.

I tried to persuade him, but he wouldn't listen. Even if he does, he may feel that he has missed 100 million dollars. He is still young, and the total amount of money invested is actually not much. It's better to let him bump into it and learn from it, so that he won't make the same mistake again.

These costs are not high. Even if you don't listen to advice, people who pay a high price to commit crimes may never turn over. Some people are willing to risk annoying you to persuade. You are actually a kind of luck. You should also listen and cherish this hard-won feeling.

Otherwise, when you regret it, you will have nothing, and it will be too late.

Tingting is also a woman who won't stop until she hits the south wall. She used to think that she lived quite clearly. She also thinks that her ex-husband is stupid, doesn't know how to make money, lives too solidly, and doesn't know the difficulty of sympathizing with her daughter and sister. If such a man wants to divorce himself, it is, but it is a drag on her life.

But after the divorce, she really discovered that she was the biggest fool in the world, and her ex-husband was the smartest man, and her heart was very bright. Looking back on what her ex-husband said to her before, every sentence is quite reasonable.

The more she thought about it, the more she regretted it and wanted to slap herself. But there is no point in saying anything now. She lost the man who loved her and made her life a mess. Who is to blame? I have only myself to blame for being so stupid.

Tingting's story began four years ago. Tingting was still very young then. Her family is not poor, but she is not rich either. She also has a younger brother who is two years younger than her.

Tingting and her brother have some feelings. My parents raised Tingting from childhood. Her younger brother is younger than her and needs her care. If there is anything delicious or interesting, she will give it to her brother first. She wants to protect her brother from being bullied outside and always protect him. This is the responsibility of being a sister.

She listened to her parents, who gave her a heavy burden as a sister. Influenced by her parents, she gradually accepted her teaching. Since childhood, she has really been protecting her brother, taking this as her glorious and sacred responsibility.

My brother was bullied at school. She was the first to rush ahead and didn't ask who was right or wrong. Anyway, whoever attacked her brother, she attacked him. She is not a violent person in fact, but her brother is in trouble. She is like an old hen who protects her chicks, and she ignites the desire for protection.

Her brother is smart, too. He knows how to please his parents and sister, what he wants, or make any mistakes, so he acts like a spoiled child in front of his parents. If it doesn't work there, he will grind his sister. Tingting dotes on this younger brother and can't stand begging. No matter what happens, she will come out to give it to her brother and try to satisfy everything he wants.

She really likes and trusts her brother. She always regards her brother as her son. Although my brother is clever, he really doesn't study hard and just wants to play. There is no strict person in the family, so Tingting's brother dropped out of school early.

Tingting's parents are really pedantic. They really don't take school as a necessity. I think reading is enough. People have hands and feet, and boys always need to travel. They can always support themselves by going out to see, experience, study and do what they want.

Tingting thinks that her younger brother should go to school, but her doting attitude also makes her agree with her parents' attitude: "360 lines, it's okay, my younger brother is very smart and can get ahead in everything."

Family members praise their younger brother for no reason, which is actually tantamount to killing. Will this boy brought up by the stars really do everything well and have a bright future as his parents think?

The boy really got mixed up in the wrong way. His grade is too small, and the people he knows are too low, so he can't get on Yangguan Avenue at all. After a few years in the society, I didn't make any money, but I got to know many local ruffians and hooligans, worshipped them, recognized several so-called "big brothers" and stayed together all day.

In those years, Tingting's parents were so worried Although they don't know what his brother is doing outside, and his brother has never said anything, the boy's reputation outside is really bad. Everyone shook their heads and said that his brother was a "debt collector".

It was not until Tingting got married that my brother suddenly matured overnight. He stopped dressing up as a dirty street hooligan and said that he was doing business with some people and began to make money.

What it is, the family is not clear, the boy is very old and has his own opinion. If he doesn't tell his family, no one will know. Anyway, his parents and Tingting think that his younger brother is learning well and can make money, so they don't ask any more questions.

Let's talk about Tingting's husband again In fact, he is an honest man. He seems to stutter, but he is very kind to Tingting. Tingting doesn't love her husband very much. She thinks her husband is very boring, except making money, which is really boring. If his parents don't insist that this boy is suitable for life, has good family conditions and is nice, she won't marry such a man anyway.

But that man was really good to her, and she felt good later. The man gave Tingting his salary for safekeeping and let her spend it casually. Then she was really rude. She bought a new washing machine, LCD TV refrigerator, more than 10 thousand computers and game machines for her brother. The man didn't say anything.

Even if I say a few words occasionally, Tingting has reason to go back: "You gave me the salary card and let me spend it casually. How can you go back on your word now? "

Her husband can't talk to her properly, but he always advises her: "You and your parents-in-law really should take good care of your brother. If he does this, something big will happen sooner or later. " I don't know what he is doing, but it's not a good thing to think about it. Besides, he spends a lot of money and earns 6 thousand a day. He can spend 8 thousand on singing and inviting people to dinner and massage that night.

Once he invited me to go, and I saw that all the individuals he invited were Zuo Qinglong and Bai Hu. I know what he did is definitely not a good thing. Really, you should provide snacks. Tingting disagreed: "He can make money because he has the ability. Why do you care so much about him? You look at people with colored glasses. People with tattoos are not good people? I think my brother is very good, very smart and much better than you. "My husband took the trouble to mention it several times, and Tingting didn't take it seriously. Later, my brother suddenly said that he wanted to invest heavily, and he borrowed Tingting 400,000 as soon as he opened his mouth. This is not for nothing, and the rebate is surprisingly high.

Tingting grinds her husband and must give it: "My brother is very serious in business and has given us so many benefits. Why not? If you don't give it, we will divorce. " My husband is really helpless: "Our family can't come up with so much money at once. Even if we can get it, I will say it. I don't think it's reliable, hang. Just listen to me and don't borrow it. " This is still one thing, and whether it will get into trouble is another matter. "

Tingting is resolute and doesn't listen to her husband's advice. Later, honest people were also forced to worry. He gritted his teeth and said to Tingting, "If you have to jump into the fire pit, get a divorce." Even so, the man was righteous. Although Tingting was not given money, she was given their house. At the time of divorce, the man had a complicated expression and gave Tingting a suggestion.

"I still advise you, don't think about making this money, you will be fine, live in this house, if you want to marry this house again in the future, don't sell it or give it to your brother. Mark my words. " Tingting scoffed and totally disdained. Not long after divorcing her husband, she resisted her brother's persuasion and sold her house to invest in her brother.

I did take a lot of money at first. Tingting had 20 thousand yuan in hand for half a year, but I never expected that after half a year, my brother had an accident, which lasted for half a year. Finally, I briefly said that the investment failed and the money was wasted. I don't know what trouble my brother got into, but he also hid in other places, and there was no news.

At this time, Tingting began to panic and really realized that the house was gone and the money could not be collected. She has nothing.

She went to her parents, who were also puzzled and said, "You borrowed this money voluntarily, and no one forced you. Your brother didn't invest in it, too How can you blame your brother? If the house is gone, you can get back together with your ex-husband. It is useless to find us, and it is even more useless to find your brother. " Originally, she didn't have to work, and men would support her. Although she can't live a particularly rich life, at least she has nothing to worry about, but now, such days are over.

She went out to look for a job, two or three thousand a month, divorced. Her parents also want her to leave her family early, saying that it is bad luck and depends on her family's attitude. Tingting regretted her ex-husband's suggestion.

Tingting's life is a tragedy. She had an irresponsible parent and a brother who didn't fit in, and the ending was tragic. But the source of the tragedy is not herself. Obviously, she jumped out of the fire pit, but she jumped back willingly, ignoring her husband's advice, and used her husband's family's property again and again to help her parents and younger brother.

Her ex-husband, who really deserves her, divorced when she couldn't bear it, but still took care of her for many years, did not completely sever the relationship with her, and gave her the house after the divorce.

Not only that, for her later life, I really gave her advice for her own good, but she didn't listen at all, went her own way, gave up her marriage, and almost put the rest of her life into it.

Without a house and a home, a divorced woman is no longer young, and the tragic tone of her life has been quietly laid.

She is very poor. Although she doesn't deserve pity, she deserves pity. If she can listen to her ex-husband, even a word, in fact, her life should not be such a tragedy.

But what makes people helpless is that even if she is given another chance, I think she will still choose to make the same mistake and end up in the same end.

Some people's life tragedies have nothing to do with fate at all, but in the end they will blame their own lives, never thinking that their own choices are the culprit.