I gave my mother-in-law living expenses, and after seeing the dishes in her kitchen, I decided not to give any money. what do you think?

The living expenses for mother-in-law are spent on siblings and brother-in-law, and the meals are all big fish and big meat. Daughter-in-law's visit is a bowl of porridge. If she hadn't happened to see it, she would have thought her life was so bad. Mother-in-law does not treat her daughter-in-law as one of her own, and it is reasonable for her daughter-in-law not to give her living expenses.

0 1. My mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law, but she still gives her living expenses as always. My mother-in-law divorced her father-in-law in her early years, and her eldest son awarded it to him, and her mother-in-law took her youngest son. Xiaohong has been taking care of her mother-in-law since she married her husband. She has a little son who has nothing to do. Usually, as long as you have money, you can just play when you get married. Since Xiaohong entered the door, her mother-in-law has always had a bad attitude. Even if she does well, she never smiles at her daughter-in-law. I just keep asking my daughter-in-law and son for money. Even so, Xiaohong has been paying the living expenses. In Xiaohong's view, her mother-in-law may be influenced by her father-in-law's divorce, because her husband was awarded to her father-in-law, so she was treated unfairly. Even if the daughter-in-law went to her mother-in-law's hometown, her mother-in-law never left her for dinner at home and always treated her as an outsider.

02. Playing tricks on my mother-in-law has been pretending to be poor in front of her son in order to get more living expenses. Xiaohong's mother-in-law pretends to be poor every time she goes back to her hometown in order to defraud her living expenses. The dishes on the table are all green porridge, not even a pickle. In this way, Xiaohong thought that the living expenses were not enough. In the countryside, she can have three or four thousand living expenses a month, and she can basically live a life of eating meat. But in this family of three, they didn't see any decent food. Sister-in-law and brother-in-law always wait until the little red couple leave before eating. Xiaohong wouldn't have known that her mother-in-law had been pretending to be poor in recent years if she hadn't stumbled across a pile of rich meals hidden in the kitchen. Because my brother-in-law only lives on his laurels in the countryside, he can't earn much money in a month. My mother-in-law wants more living expenses to support her sister-in-law's family, and she doesn't care how hard her daughter-in-law works to make money for their family. I only know that my daughter-in-law is weak and I can bully her as much as I want.

Since the in-laws don't like her, there is no need to treat her as well as their biological parents. Speaking of it, Xiaohong doesn't really need to please her mother-in-law. After serving for so many years, she still hasn't changed herself. You know, this mother-in-law doesn't have this daughter-in-law in her heart I don't live with my mother-in-law anyway. There's no need to stick a hot face on someone else's cold ass. This time, knowing that my mother-in-law is actually pretending to be poor, I discussed with my husband not to send living expenses home again. Even if you want to send Xiaohong yourself, at least don't pay a penny. After all, this is not your real mother. She doesn't regard herself as a daughter-in-law, so there is no need to treat her as her own mother. When she is sick and needs someone to take care of her, her brother-in-law and sister-in-law will only eat with their mouths open and can't take care of her mother. Then she may know the importance of a daughter-in-law