When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, what "less do not do" that smart women insist on will naturally make mother-in-law look at you with new eyes?

0 1 Get rid of selfish distractions and let yourself not think.

Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. In fact, many differences in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be handled, and some trivial issues can be ignored. But some girls don't think so. As soon as I entered the room, I couldn't help putting my mother-in-law on the opposite side of myself. This kind of woman only needs to be wronged a little at home or have differences with her mother-in-law, and she feels that she is deliberately right and will magnify a small matter.

Since everyone is in love and married, women should learn to be tolerant and respectful. If you are narrow-minded and paranoid, you can only turn your friendly mother-in-law into your enemy in diamond cut diamond. When dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, women with high emotional intelligence will first get rid of selfish distractions and never think about them. The more sincere and calm you are in front of your husband and parents-in-law, the more you will be respected and appreciated by your husband's family.

There is no need to stir up trouble and put my husband in a dilemma.

There are also some stupid women who will regard their mother-in-law as their opponents after marriage. They are like agents, collecting evidence all day and telling their husbands the bad side of their mother-in-law. In fact, these women only do this to express their dissatisfaction and expect their husbands to support them against their husbands. I don't know. I'm more afraid of offending my husband. No matter how loving husband and wife are, blood is thicker than water between husband and mother-in-law. These silly women always have to distinguish between husband-wife relationship and mother-child relationship, and finally they can only end in tragedy.

Looking back at these women with high emotional intelligence, they will never become instigators in the family. When you are wronged, you know how to adjust your mentality, and you will never let your husband be in a dilemma between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's better to say that everything is fine than to complain. This kind of woman with high emotional intelligence will not only impress her husband with their tolerance, but also gain the attention of her husband's family more easily. In the long run, their status as women will naturally become higher and higher.

Stick to the bottom line, there is no need to distinguish right from wrong.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will stick to her principle bottom line when interacting with her mother-in-law's family. In daily life, they can tolerate concessions and listen to opinions. However, when the husband's and mother-in-law's family obviously goes beyond personal behavior and even destroys the principle bottom line of a family, they often fight bravely and never compromise.

There are many stupid women who blindly give in in order to get the approval of their husbands and in-laws, thinking that they can get the approval of their in-laws. But I don't know that the more concessions there is no bottom line, the cheaper it is, and how can I get the attention of my husband's family? A woman with high emotional intelligence, getting along with her mother-in-law's family, knows both etiquette and reason. Let you be gentle and tolerant in your daily life, and stick to the bottom line when touching it. Such people are more distinguished, and of course they are more likely to be concerned by their mother-in-law.