Sentences that use people in the front and don’t use people in the back

Unloading mills and killing donkeys, crossing rivers and demolishing bridges, using people to go forward, not using people to go to the back, etc...

I don’t stand up to rich people because I can’t spend their money. Money, I don’t look down on the poor because they don’t rely on me to survive. I don’t flatter the powerful because they won’t help you in vain. I don’t flatter the proud villain because he doesn’t like me.

I only believe in, firstly: the people who share my joys and sorrows; secondly: the benefactors who help me up when I fall; thirdly: the people who never leave me and never leave me even when I have nothing. Life is short. There is no time for hypocrisy. People don’t have to be illiterate, but they must know people. If a tree is tall, don’t forget its roots. If a person is brilliant, don’t be ungrateful.

In the workplace, how to judge which people you can have a close friendship with? Lao Wang was also tricked by others when he was young. As a person who has climbed up from various pits, Lao Wang has the most say. At the same time, based on the cases during the interview process, he summarized ten rules:

1. If you don’t repay the borrowed money, you will be promoted. A person who has reached a high level of morality should not only not have close friendship with him, but also the people around him should not have close friendship with him and must stay away.

Once, while chatting with a friend, the topic of borrowing money came up. She said that her boyfriend was asking her to borrow money, and she was worried about being cheated, so she immediately broke up with him. After the breakup, she learned through a third party that her ex-boyfriend was a scumbag who dated girls exclusively, borrowed money, and disappeared after borrowing money.

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Regarding borrowing money, Lao Wang once again reminds you: Never lend money to others, otherwise, it will mean that you yourself have neglected you. the gap in the relationship between them. One possible exception is that the parents, wife or children of the person who borrowed money from you are lying in the hospital and have no money for treatment, so they have to come to you. In this case, you can borrow money, and there is no need to discuss other situations.

2. Employ people from the front, not from the back; people who do one thing before others and another behind them must not have close friendships. Such a person is too scheming. The key is that he will step on your body and move up. When facing such people, you must keep your eyes open to identify them clearly, so as not to be taken advantage of or ridiculed.

3. People who love to pretend should never have deep friendships. Acting like a big-tailed wolf all day long, if you associate with such people, you will suffer misery from them.

4. You must not have a close relationship with someone who does not know how to keep secrets and uses your secrets as a bargaining chip for his external contacts or exchanges. Especially during the interview, some people will not hesitate to sell their former company's business secrets in order to get the chance to be interviewed. Such people must not be admitted. Because he can sell the trade secrets of his former company here, he can also sell the trade secrets of your company in other places.