How important is it for a 30-year-old woman to divorce a reliable family?

In the emotional world of husband and wife, there are thousands of reasons for divorce, but do you know what women need most in the face of divorce? Most of them are the spiritual encouragement and support of the family. How important is a reliable family to a married woman? Let's start with a real emotional case.

My cousin is 30 years old, with fine features and gentle manners. She has little resistance to such a woman from a man's point of view. I got the kitchen under the hall. I am a graduate student of a famous university. She will naturally marry a man with good economic conditions, and her husband will take over the family business after graduating from junior high school. The family has been engaged in catering business for generations, and there are eight chain stores alone.

Unfortunately, my cousin doesn't understand that the consistent "three views" are the key factors for a happy marriage. If the external conditions are very different, the family status of husband and wife will gradually become unbalanced in their married life until they can't stand it and divorce.

My cousin's pre-marital ideals were all wiped out in her carefree life after marriage, and she lost the motivation to struggle. Reality is reality. Who doesn't want to live a life without fatigue? People are lazy, what's more, apart from a group of coolies, the rest are a few old houses.

The second year my cousin got married was last year. My father-in-law's overwork caused a serious stroke. After several courses of rehabilitation, the effect is not obvious. 10 nannies are not dedicated at home. Anyway, my cousin was idle after marriage, so her husband gave her this hard and tiring job.

Taking care of in-laws should be said to be something that women have to face more or less in their marriage life. At first, my cousin used to serve tea and water. After a long time, my father-in-law has to rub clothes by hand to wash them clean. However, my cousin, who has always been spoiled, certainly doesn't want to. Her view on marriage is: educate children, enjoy a rich material life, and never shit and pee for in-laws.

The turning point that led to the end of my cousin's marriage was a trivial matter.

A few days ago, my cousin mixed my father-in-law's dirty clothes and towels in the washing machine and washed them together. My mother-in-law repeatedly stressed that this is not allowed, and clothes and towels must be washed separately. But my cousin is not satisfied, so it is enough to take care of my father-in-law. My mother-in-law insists on finding fault with eggs.

"You are deliberately spite me. I've done very well. I didn't marry this family as a nanny. Should I also have my own married life? " Cousin is not convinced to kill her mother-in-law

The husband on the side suddenly got angry and immediately grabbed his cousin's hair and insulted him.

"How dare you say that? After you married me, you didn't have to pay for all the expenses at home. A woman like you just doesn't clean. Since you don't make money, just concentrate on serving my parents. If you can't, divorce. " The husband said.

The husband and wife pushed back and forth, and the cousin's head hit the door, and her face was red and swollen by her husband. She felt wronged and quickly found her eldest brother. As a result, her eldest brother led a group of people to make trouble at her cousin's husband's house. After all, my own sister is the daughter-in-law of this family, and at worst she should not be beaten like this.

At the end of the matter, my cousin got an apology from her husband's family, and her husband was punished by law for intentional injury. As a result of this, my cousin has a reliable family. Without the help of her family, the domestic violence suffered by her cousin will continue to escalate. To this end, the husband's family filed for divorce, and the cousin agreed that the divorce procedure will be formally handled in the near future.

From the perspective of marriage, cousin doesn't know what the responsibility of marriage is and what attitude a woman should maintain in marriage. The dignity and independence of human nature are the cornerstones of a happy marriage. In other words, depending on men everywhere is bound to get disgust and contempt. Of course, family dependence is important, because the reason of others can stop the unfortunate marriage in time and give the greatest support on the spiritual pillar.

However, without knowledge about marriage, no matter how strong the family is, it can't pave the way for her life. Marriage is not a reason for self-deprecation, and marriage is not a springboard for women.