What should teachers say when they visit their parents at home?

I believe many students have experienced home visits. Teachers' home visits are not only stressful for students, but also for parents. Let me share with you what teachers should say when visiting parents, hoping to help you.

Don't say anything to pass the buck.

Exodus 1: I'll give it to you later. You should talk about it and scold it. We'll give it to you.

This sentence is parents' favorite, but teachers often don't like it.

Example 2: Children are usually brought up by grandparents, and we don't know much about it!

Parents know nothing about the details of their children's life and study, and keep explaining that they are busy with work and have no time to take care of their children. Understand that children are your own and do your duty. Therefore, in front of the teacher, don't push the child's education completely to others.

I recommend: the teacher examines the parents' speaking skills. Parents shouldn't say these things to teachers.

Don't say anything asking for special care.

Example 1: Please ask the teacher to arrange our children's seats in the front.

There is always someone sitting in the front and someone sitting in the back in every class, which depends on each child's own situation. And it doesn't matter much before and after the seat, as long as the students around you have good class habits, it's all the same.

Ex. 2: I hope teachers can pay more attention to our children.

There are more than 30 people in a class, and the teacher has limited energy, so it is impossible to take special care of every child. Generally speaking, students with learning difficulties and students with bad behavior habits are focused on by teachers.

Don't say excessive praise or criticism.

Example 1: Our children are more sensible and smarter. How old can they read? Baby, come and introduce yourself to the teacher in English.

In order to leave a good impression on the teacher, some parents will praise their children too much and let them perform various talent shows for the teacher. You know, teachers and children will be together in the next five years. Can't a gifted teacher tell?

Example 2: Our children are naughty, inattentive and don't like learning. So far, there is nothing they can do. I hope the teacher can help me correct it!

Some parents will belittle their children too much, and some parents even criticize their children in front of teachers and children, which is not conducive to the good relationship between teachers and children.

In fact, parents should objectively introduce their children's development and never avoid their problems. At the same time, in front of the teacher, we should put forward our own suitable and appropriate hopes for the children and let them know their parents' trust and expectations.

Don't talk about things that are usually busy at work.

Example 1: We are usually busy at work, and it is often difficult to educate our children in two places. I hope the teacher will take more trouble!

Ex. 2: We are busy at work, so it is difficult to ask for leave. Parent-teacher conferences or other activities organized by the school will inevitably be absent. I hope the teacher will forgive us.

Parents are busy at work, so are teachers, who have to face dozens of children alone. Family and school education is everyone's responsibility. Never say that you are busy in front of the teacher.

Don't talk about other teachers in front of visiting teachers and children.

Example 1: There is a teacher in children's kindergarten, who is not friendly to the people at all, as amiable as you are.

Ex. 2: I heard that a teacher in your school has a bad temper!

In order to please visiting teachers, some parents will discuss and evaluate other teachers in front of visiting teachers and children, especially some negative comments on teachers. Teachers don't mean "always right", and sometimes some practices of teachers are not necessarily reasonable. As parents, they can communicate with their children more and try to face their children and teachers with understanding and tolerance, especially when some teachers' behaviors and practices make their children don't understand, misunderstand or complain.