What are the manifestations of women's "playing with feelings"?

Introduction: Life is like a play. We are all dolls wearing masks in the center of the stage. Life is like a dream. We are all in a dream. I hope we won't wake up. I hope the dream can come true. The same is true of our feelings, and we all hope that our feelings will be out of control and green all the way, forever! We all hope that love will last forever, and we all think that eternal love is the kind of eternity we pursue!

But there is also a word called game room, and there is also a word called letting a hundred flowers blossom without touching a leaf. There are too many unpredictable people and things around us. With the surrounding environment, according to their own situation, they no longer adhere to their original self, and we hope that they will not change because of their own changes. We all hope that their feelings will be as consistent as in the movies. And those women who just hold and play often have these four performances.

First, take the initiative to ask for something

People live to better pursue material life, and for the sake of happiness in our hearts, we become sophisticated and sleek beyond recognition. If you have a high emotional intelligence, you can also get what you want through some hints of your own behavior, and those so-called not-so-smart women will show greed.

Women who are just joking about their feelings will take the initiative to ask you for something. Because she doesn't take this relationship seriously, she won't understand how difficult it is for you to make money. She only knows the joy of spending money. He won't understand how hard it is for you to make money. All she knows is that you don't spend money for her or you don't love her.

Second, don't introduce you to her friends.

If a woman is serious about you, she will want the whole world to know that you are her boyfriend, and she will introduce you to everyone she knows, her friends, her relatives and friends. Her circle of friends is full of photos of you and him, and all the words are about you. At that time, you were her world, and she couldn't wait to be with you all the time.

But if she doesn't really love you, she doesn't want to have any contact with you, she won't introduce you to her relatives and friends, and even rarely send photos of you and her in the circle of friends. She doesn't want you in her life. Similarly, she doesn't want to enter your social circle. It is better to form a stranger. She is not serious about you and will only think of you when necessary.

Third, having an affair with other men.

In feelings, ambiguity is the best time for a relationship. That kind of ambiguity, that kind of obscurity, is a process that everyone especially enjoys. Because of ambiguity, I don't have to be responsible. But if a woman is serious about you, she won't have an affair with any man. You are the only one in her heart, and she will devote herself to you. Her eyes are full of you.

However, if there are countless members of the opposite sex in a woman's WeChat besides you, there will still be friends who are suitable for picking up girls in the morning, and WeChat will keep ringing, proving that she is really not suitable for you and her heart is still wild. Maybe she is not suitable for you, and you can't settle her down yet.

Fourth, play dumb in front of you.

In feelings, women are always more sensitive than men, and the so-called sixth sense of women is really useful. When a woman is sincere to you, she will not be silly in front of you, but more like an innocent girl, moved by a little tenderness and romance. She will never play dumb in front of you.

A woman who plays the fool in front of you may be trying to gain your sympathy and make you feel that this woman is so stupid and simple. You must treat her well and don't let such a woman down. But such a woman is often just to play with this relationship. Maybe if you give your heart, he will get tired of this relationship. I hope you can polish your sincere eyes.

the old me

Timid, cowardly, unable to talk to girls, embarrassed and boring to chat, afraid to look directly at each other when talking, often kneeling down to girls, secretly loving the goddess, and even more at a loss when dating.

The most fundamental reason is that I don't know how to chat with girls, and I have no thoughts and thoughts. I just want to tell you that these problems that plague most single young men can be easily solved.

Until I met Xi Ouyang Shi's grandiosity, I systematically learned a lot of his thinking and routines, gradually changed a lot, and finally pursued the goddess. If you want to know your brother, you can search WeChat official account xishi223366.

A woman who is playing with emotional psychology, in the final analysis, just wants to be ambiguous and seek temporary psychological comfort and stimulation.

A woman who plays with emotional psychology first will not care whether a man is single-minded to her. It is possible that the man already has a girlfriend, and she will also provoke others. It is possible that the man is not particularly single-minded to her, and she will not be very jealous. Since it's fun, you don't care about everlasting feelings, and you don't care about single-mindedness of feelings.

Cynical women are generally open-minded women. They are not satisfied with maintaining a stable and lasting relationship. Most of them are eating, drinking and enjoying life. She may have a crush on men's power, money and handsome men, but this man is not the ultimate destination in her heart.

There is a girl named Xiaoyan in our local area. When I was in junior high school, I was on the school sports team. I am tall and beautiful, which has provoked the pursuit of several senior boys. Xiaoyan was still young at that time and didn't know the depth. Today, she is with this boy, and tomorrow, she is with other boys. As a result, the boys are jealous of each other. Two boys fought in the playground and stabbed one of them with a knife. Three people were expelled from school.

Xiaoyan walks into the society, and wherever she goes, she will set off a whirlpool. In the cotton mill where she works, she fell in love with a boy, was pregnant, and the child was not born yet. Her boyfriend got into a fight with another male colleague who flirted with Xiaoyan, causing serious injuries. Her boyfriend was sentenced to four years in prison.

Xiaoyan left her boyfriend's house after giving birth and went to work in the surrounding cities. I rented a house in the urban-rural fringe and changed my boyfriend for three days. After a whole year, not only did I have no savings, but I also owed tens of thousands of debts to my relatives and friends.

Seven or eight years later, Xiaoyan gave birth to two boys to two boyfriends. She is in her thirties, still single and living a hard life. It is said that he is now very stable and lives with a middle-aged man in his forties, but the middle-aged man has a family and doesn't want a divorce. I don't know what Xiao Yan has planned for him. Xiaoyan, a beautiful woman who was originally beautifully dressed, has been playing with her feelings for so many years. Ten years later, she is still so poor, which makes people sigh!

Society is like a kaleidoscope, colorful, colorful, everyone is an independent individual, even if there are hundreds of millions of people, it will never produce exactly the same repetition, and everyone has differences. There are gentlemen and scum naturally. There are thousands of good people, and it is inevitable that there will be a few scum. Regardless of gender, scum naturally has male scum and female scum. Therefore, it is normal for unlucky people to meet scum. It is inevitable that few women play with men's feelings. As long as we pay attention to their performance, it is easy to find their cheating tricks. I briefly summarized that women who just want to play with men have the following six manifestations and signs. First, sometimes it's hot and cold, sometimes it's good for you, and sometimes it's cold. Second, I am always busy and sometimes disappear without a trace. Third, there are so many lies that you can't tell whether what she said is true or not. Fourth, I was suddenly very affectionate to you that day and spoke very gently. I must ask you to swipe your card or pay. Fifth, men have many good friends and like to have an affair with men. Sixth, always refuse you to enter her small circle. For example, I don't want you to know her family and friends, nor do I want to introduce your relationship with her to outsiders. Always explain to others that you are her brother, or her brother, classmate, colleague and so on. When you meet a woman who has the above six performances, friends had better cut the gordian knot and stay away as soon as possible.

Everyone longs for true love! Love is precious, and it can be met but not sought.

Many boys meet girls they like, and it won't take long for them to fall completely. They can't wait to take off the moon in the sky, and they can't wait to take out their hearts. In my heart, eyes, every day and every second, even in my sleep, it is her! But not every effort can get true love, and some girls just "play" in their feelings. It is conceivable that the harm caused to boys can't be described in words.

It is said that whoever is serious first in love will lose. But I want to say that there is no shame in losing. It is shameful not to give your heart in love.

So in reality, how can we identify girls who are just holding the psychology of "playing" without hurting themselves? What is the performance of such a girl?

First, keep your distance. She will suddenly feel bored and push you away, probably just because you didn't buy her what she wanted. When you find that you want to retreat, you will gently rely on naive girls.

Second, I always let you buy things for her intentionally or unintentionally, and I don't feel bad about spending your money. They don't know yet. It seems that you are willing and won't fall behind. She asked you to buy it as an excuse. But if you don't buy it, you will be unhappy and lose face.

Third, being with you and having an affair with other boys. Laughing and even pandering, regardless of your feelings? If you bring it up, she will either deny it or laugh at you for thinking too much.

Fourth, never introduce you to her friends and relatives, and never take you home to meet her family. Her circle of friends has nothing to do with you. In other words, she actually didn't accept you at all!

Boys and friends, if you find that your girl has these talents, then leave quickly. In stock market terms, it is called immediate stop loss, otherwise you have to cut the meat.

1. Don't refuse invitations from other members of the opposite sex.

2. indifference to your affairs

It's normal to have an affair with other men.

Step on more than one boat

5. Always be related to your own interests.

6. Treat you well when you are needed, not contact you when you are not needed, and treat you as cannon fodder.

Thank the author for his question.

What are the manifestations of women's "playing with feelings"? My arrogant brother is here to help you solve your problem. The performance is as follows: ① Strong vanity. She likes to compare with others, wants to have everything, and wants to compare with others no matter what. For example, if someone else buys a car, she can't afford it, and she will say behind her back that someone else has got a car for the rich as a mistress. Put on a clean posture that will not be eaten by others, so as to show your so-called purity. To satisfy their vanity.

2 delicious and lazy. Don't work, earn money by your own hands, but dream of making money all day. Indulge in places like chess and cards room. Or buy lottery tickets and dream of getting rich overnight. I also want to be rich, but I'm not beautiful enough. Love takes advantage. You can act as a lobbyist for some small favors. For example: Wang Po in the Water Margin. Or sell your body for some material things. Her mantra is to be happy when you are alive.

4 emotionally hurt. When I was young, I was hurt by the opposite sex, so I collapsed and revolved around the opposite sex all day. In the face of other people's suggestions, she only talks and plays. ⑤ bitch. She can't offend, or she will importune, a pair of life without love and you desperately Shouting. Pretending to be a big sister all day can do anything. In fact, psychologically, I am afraid that others will look down on her to raise myself. What are the manifestations of women's "playing with feelings"? Although this problem has nothing to do with serious mental illness, this kind of psychological woman can easily make many men have psychological problems, feel cheated, and have symptoms such as depression and anxiety.

I have seen many such patients. From their stories, I can sum up some characteristics of women with this psychology. Let me share them with you.

1. The way to know is mostly in the network.

Because such people are just playing with their feelings, they usually experience many breaks after the novelty. For them, if they don't want to break up, they will cut the gordian knot and find their next home as soon as possible, so their ways to meet people are basically on the Internet.

Wechat, an online chat tool, only needs to move your finger to delete friends. After hacking a person, he can't have any form of communication with you. And now, with the expansion of mobile games and online games, almost every game has a server chat function, and some games also have a virtual relationship option, where everyone can establish relationships, lovers or close friends.

The development of this kind of network technology just meets those who are just looking for a temporary novelty. They don't need to pay any responsibility. Finding a goal is as easy as blowing off dust, or even just typing a few words on the chat channel to express their needs, and a large number of similar people will reply immediately.

However, there will also be a person who really values this feeling. Inconsistent understanding of the relationship between two people will deal a blow to the one who values feelings more, while the one who just played may be entangled.

This kind of person usually blackens everything as soon as the novelty is over. Their happy memories at that time were all about experiencing hormone secretion at that time. Once time passes, they will not look for happiness from their previous memories, but will only look for the next person who can bring him freshness.

Step 2 have an affair

Many people think that people with this mentality have no conscience, but in fact, they also value whether their words and deeds are consistent, so they often don't make a vow to you, but they don't want you to leave before you have had enough fun. They will say something ambiguous.

These words are often above the lover's satisfaction, such as asking you what you ate every day, sharing happy and sad things with you every day, but never revealing the relationship between men and women to you.

They will also use some reasons to avoid establishing relationships. These reasons can often bring you ideas that they are not ready for, so you just have to wait until his freshness fades, and you begin to feel that he is getting cold. In the end, it was useless, but there was no reason to scold him.

These people often have ambiguous objects more than once, or find their next home in the process of ambiguity, and then wait.

3. I seldom express my feelings

For this kind of person who often entertains his feelings, you get his approval in time, and your relationship is often only known to you.

They have established a relationship with you in time, and will not mention that you are a boyfriend in the circle of friends or Weibo. When his friends ask him, he may even say that he is single and often refuses your official ideas for various reasons. Even some girls will ask you not to tell others, euphemistically saying that feelings are two people's business.

In short, for this kind of thing, if two people are just joking, it doesn't hurt. It can be said that life is too short to eat, drink and be merry. But if you are an emotional person, I hope you can recognize this kind of person so as not to hurt yourself. I hope this article can help you.

What are the performances of women who have the psychology of "just playing" with their feelings?

Xiling's point of view: there are three main aspects.

1, not activated. Such a woman has countless spare tires. I never take the initiative to ask a man out unless I urgently need what I want from him.

2. Don't refuse. As long as men have certain strength, such women are welcome. And it will give each other a little sweetness, and the cooperation is also good. The other party who can be charmed will also be charmed. Once the other person is drained of oil and water, he will leave immediately and throw himself at other men.

3. Not responsible. Such a woman spends money and is merciful everywhere. But when it comes to pants, you don't recognize people. There is no such thing as "one day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days". It is good not to burn down the bridge.

Women who have the psychology of "just playing" with their feelings mainly have the following performances.

First, don't refuse a man's love, but don't accept a man's deep love. Playful women generally don't take the initiative to refuse men's kindness to her, but they don't accept men's kindness to her. Men usually don't accept too expensive gifts and too deep feelings.

The second is to issue a "good man card" at ordinary times. Usually these women will say, "you are really nice, but I don't deserve you!" " You are really excellent, but I don't deserve you to be so kind to me. "The reason why they refuse to love is often inappropriate, not that men are bad. Let men continue to love her without giving men love.

Third, don't take the initiative or refuse a man's date. Usually these women don't take the initiative to ask out men, but they don't refuse men's dates. They can have a candlelight dinner with you, even at some point on a spring night. However, once they turn around, they still won't take the initiative to contact men.

Fourth, they won't let men into their friends and family. Usually these women will refuse men to enter their circle of friends and relatives for various reasons.

In general, they will not give a man a proper identity. The relationship between two people can be ambiguous, but it will not give a man a clear identity.

6. They accept appointments, but they are often deliberately late for them.

Seven, they don't easily point out men's good and bad, good and bad, and they don't easily get angry. Even if men make mistakes, they keep calm. It's all for them. It doesn't matter.

Playing with feelings is a good word. Excuse me, is there anything interesting in the world? Under what circumstances is it true. Even scientists can't explain it once or twice. Besides, it must be. You can see it clearly under your nose. The simplest metaphor is that you are more comfortable when you go to the toilet. I don't want to guess whether men nowadays are too narrow-minded. What makes you so stingy? Guess, a phone call. Get out. Think about all kinds of information and guess. This is called a thing, whether it is a tigress or a marshmallow. You men are most afraid of being the warmest and confused. You didn't invite me. Guess what else you can do? A phone call? You can't sit still. Is it interesting? There is little hope that the Social Democratic Party will find your rival in love. Warm … looking for information … controlling … chasing brown told me that there are 3%. Although the network is developed, it does not play a big role in the world. When you receive the smallpox pendant, your ears can see it. This is information before 7%. Wechat is confidential, but not now. How much information can I get? Was it high mucosa at that time? You can hear something on Ruyang. Is it true?/You don't say. You should try to surpass them, not doubt the person you like. You should be in your mouth with your opponent, just call it a rival in love. There are various ways to surpass him and find the difference between you and him. Don't choose expensive dishes. The person you like will be sad after a long time. If you talk to someone, there will be problems. On the other hand, I ask you, what does he think? This is the same reason. Men nowadays are frightened by the tigress. Still stuck in sugar, it's too uncomfortable. Tiger Huawei can eat it. Can sugar be washed on your body? Now, it is also pitiful. There is no information at all on WeChat. Now that you have said it, it must be intentional. It is possible that he may spill the beans, and there is only a 3% chance. If you want to control the spelling phone that follows this person, the new phone is similar. My mobile phone is useless anyway. How can you find someone without 3%? You also said that Mao had no chance. There are many ways to find someone. The easiest way is to save someone else's mobile phone and make a phone call to get everything done. It's too simple to write a letter to them … there are many ways to count … too many … men and women are the same. It's too easy to get rid of them. These two exits can cut off all contact. In my eyes, people and things have their own ways. Now take a few pounds of yourself. Even if you want to wake up, you have to have capital.