When you reach middle age, I suggest you be a fickle person.

At the beginning, everyone was very enthusiastic about treating people.

After being beaten by the society, only when the enthusiasm is not responded, can we understand that maintaining appropriate fickle feelings is the best way to get along.

In my life, I have met countless people, and not all of them are worthy of heart-to-heart.

In interpersonal communication, if a person exerts too much force on life, he will not be what live high wants.

In the Mars Intelligence Bureau, when the guests talked about the most vulnerable people in the circle of friends, Wang Han said, "I don't have any of these troubles you said, because none of you here have my WeChat."

Indeed, he deleted his partner Qian Feng for many years.

The reason is: "after deleting some friends, I feel very relaxed, and all the time is my own, so comfortable."

In life, some friends are just familiar strangers.

So, don't force yourself, and don't exhaust yourself for a certain relationship.

A person's energy is limited, and it is difficult to give consideration to family, work and friends.

So, those who get together and make themselves feel depressed, just give up.

The so-called gains and losses are random, and love and hate follow fate.

The encounter between people actually begins with a word "fate".

Origin and extinction, fate and extinction, and fate and dispersion are the normal state in the world. Sometimes simplicity is also a kind of happiness

When people reach middle age, they should be fickle and don't invite too many people into their lives.

At a certain age, after recognizing the essence of life, I finally understand that no one is worth living with your heart.

When people reach middle age, the life of husband and wife becomes more and more dull, and many people will be attracted by the feelings of the outside world.

As Zhang Ailing once said:

"Maybe every man has had such two women, at least two. Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still so bright at the foot of my bed; When I marry a white rose, the white one is the rice stick on my clothes, and the red one is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart. "

I remember reading a news:

The man cheated. In order to make San Xiao happy, he spent a huge sum of money to buy a suite and registered it under the name of San Xiao.

A few years later, house prices went up, but men didn't like mistress.

The man joined hands with the original match and asked for the property back on the grounds that "the man gave it privately and infringed on the property of the husband and wife".

Indeed, extramarital love, in the final analysis, is just a beautiful fantasy. When passion fades, life will eventually show its true colors.

When people reach middle age, they must understand that reason and responsibility are more important than love.

There are always choices in life.

When you live to middle age, you should spend more time with people who are worth paying for. Sometimes a little fickle will make your life more enjoyable.

When people reach middle age, appropriate fickle feelings are the wisest way of life.

The young world is always simple and beautiful. Only after surviving can we understand that the purity of teenagers is mostly unrealistic and vain.

There is a school district under the name of husband and wife. During this period, three relatives asked them for help, that is, to borrow a house and enroll their children in school.

The first time was when they just got married, and relatives had grandchildren to go to school;

The second time was when their children were two years old, and her husband's cousin's daughter needed to go to school;

The third time was my husband's father's relatives and granddaughter.

The statement is surprisingly consistent, that is, pretending to transfer ownership.

The husband and wife are also wise men, and they both decisively refused. After that, I basically no longer have any contact with these relatives.

Really, being a man, "fickle love" is a kind of advanced separation.

It's not heartless, but knowing how to get rid of emotional "kidnapping", rejecting unnecessary human connections and doing what you think is meaningful.

A friend once told me that there was an uncle at work who had never seen him smile. Whenever someone asks him for help, he will be rejected most of the time.

At first, she thought the uncle was a little too fickle. Later, she discovered that she couldn't pull her face down, and she was greeted with countless help every day.

Don't let yourself down for the rest of your life.

There is nothing wrong with being fickle.