Why don't rural elderly want to live in cities?

Nowadays, young people don't seem to live in the countryside. Because of the inconvenient conditions, they all go out to work, which means that when they go back for the New Year, they are usually stuck in the city. Try to buy a house in the city. When they have their own home, filial children think that their parents have worked hard for them for most of their lives and want to take their parents to the city to enjoy their happiness, but many old people don't want to live in the city, but they are willing to live in their hometown.

One: I am unfamiliar with everything in the city.

In fact, the old man has been used to living in the countryside all his life, and there are neighbors talking and laughing around him, or playing chess, drinking tea and dancing square dance, but it is also enjoyable. In the city, people usually build cars behind closed doors. Even if they live opposite, they may feel very strange and no one knows anyone. No one speaks, and I feel lonely and unfamiliar with my surroundings.

Second: I am not familiar with everything in the city.

If you are in your hometown, you can go wherever you want. You are all neighbors. Meet and say hello. In the past, many elderly people were inconvenient to travel. They don't know how to take the bus, and they won't take the elevator home. All kinds of cooking tools at home are useless, which makes the old people feel very uncomfortable and can't do anything by themselves. If they can't find their way out, it will also cause trouble for their children.

Three: Living together often may lead to conflicts.

Old people's ideas are really far from those of young people. At first, I may want to make the old people happy, but after a long time, I may feel bored. Some trivial things in life. Or the old people help you take care of your children. The old people's educational concept is different from that of young people, which is prone to contradictions.

So sometimes old people feel that even if they contribute, it is thankless and comfortable to live in the countryside. In fact, filial piety to the elderly is a good thing, but filial piety to the elderly is not to let her have no money to spend, but to let the elderly do what they like, to live comfortably and happily. This is the real filial piety.