What do you mean attractive?

"Charming man" means to cater to and please men.

This word is usually derogatory, suggesting that this behavior is for selfish or hypocritical purposes, rather than really caring for and respecting men. In some cases, "flattering men" may mean that women meet men's standards or expectations in gender roles and behaviors in order to gain men's recognition or love. This kind of behavior may involve changing one's own values, preferences and interests to adapt to men's traditional expectations and stereotypes of women.

Some people who want to fight for women's rights believe that women should not please men, but should stick to their comfortable lifestyle. However, what behavior belongs to attractive men has always been controversial. Some people think that women's makeup belongs to attractive men, in order to make men feel good, and to win more things through appearance.

A simple example of the specific behavior of flattering men

The so-called "flattering behavior" is to please and flatter the male object you like based on the "love brain" and get his recognition and appreciation. Because every woman's cognition of male attitude is different, it is difficult to quantify the size of "flattering behavior".

For example, women make up in their daily lives, wear beautiful clothes and learn some special skills. Make your boyfriend happy and get psychological satisfaction. Of course, this is normal. However, once your plans and actions go beyond moral principles, or seriously ignore your feelings and give up your dignity and three views, it is an abnormal "flattering behavior", which will not only lead to your long-term insecurity, but also endanger the normal life of others.