I am currently an intern and a relative found a job as an office clerk. I have been working for almost four months now. I really can’t stay here any longer. What should I do?

How should I put it? The office is not a school. No one will take the initiative to teach you or guide you. What you want to learn in the office actually requires careful observation and serious thinking on your own. .What you feel now is being ignored by others. I can only say that you have just tasted it. You have not yet tasted the stage of being suppressed by others.

You have not gotten rid of the experience you had when you were a student. Habit, if you don’t speak, who will take the initiative to talk to you?

Tell me two stories, A and B

A is a recent graduate of a certain school and goes to a certain newspaper To participate in the internship, he only went to this unit based on his interest in writing, because his major was agriculture, which was not related to the work of the newspaper. After he went to the newspaper for internship, the director of the editorial department once assigned him a job Interview task, but he didn’t know how to do the interview at all, and no one led him to familiarize himself with the process for this interview. Should he accept it or not? He chose to give up, and no one would arrange interviews for him in the future. I got the job, but when I met, I said to him: "How can I do news in a newspaper office if I don't know how to do interviews?" Then I arranged for him to do some work such as proofreading and typing where he couldn't learn any knowledge at all.

What should I do? ?He finally made up his mind and found a topic on his own. Regarding the environmental sanitation issues in a certain jurisdiction, he successively visited the residential area\office\health bureau\court\legal affairs office, interviewed several departments, and came up with a This article was objective, comprehensive, and in-depth. In order to interview the presiding judge of the court in charge of the case, he made eight trips.

When this article came out, it was received by the editor-in-chief at the newspaper conference. praise. It was because of this first breakthrough that he became familiar with the entire process of interviewing skills, and interview tasks came one after another, and he would no longer be deterred by unfamiliarity.

Another story is that B, after graduating from an agricultural university, was assigned to work in an agricultural research institute. During an agricultural experiment, during the seed sowing process, he did not mix the seeds into the sand and spread them together as required. As a result, This led to criticism from the director in charge of the project, but after the criticism, the director did not tell him why the seeds were mixed into the sand for sowing. Because B, who studied agriculture, knew that sand does not contain any nutrients and has a negative impact on the seeds. Germination and rooting are not helpful, but why would the director criticize him for this problem? He thought about it all day and night, and finally realized that mixing the seeds into the sand and spreading them was just because mixing the seeds into the sand would make the seeds Spread more evenly. Just because of the negligence of this small issue, he will be severely criticized. In the end, he will not get a clear answer. This is the current situation of the unit.

Therefore, in the unit environment, it can The summary is as follows: If you have no achievements, others will ignore you; if you have failures, others will step on you; if you have achievements, others will suppress you.