Daughter-in-law doesn't want a bride price, but also pays a dowry of 2 million. Is that good?

My daughter-in-law doesn't want a bride price, but she pays a dowry of 2 million yuan, which is not a good thing. If so, in the future, when husband and wife live together, the man will feel very humiliated, have no family status and have no sense of accomplishment, and everything will depend on his wife. If this continues for a long time, he will not be motivated, and it will hurt his self-esteem when his colleagues know about it. According to our current social customs, it is reasonable for girls to ask for some dowry.