Really educated people don't want to show off, let alone show off.

What I always admire most is the kind of talented person who keeps a low profile to his bones. He never shows off what he has, never argues with others that he is absolutely right, never tries to show his talents on big occasions, is neither humble nor supercilious, and is a firm self. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is clean, but it is clear and admirable from the heart. This is a truly cultured person.

Yi Shu said, "A lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex. " As more and more people know each other and the knowledge scene becomes more and more complicated, I gradually have a better understanding of this sentence. She keeps a low profile to her bones because her inner world is full and she doesn't need false and exaggerated praise from the outside world. Because of her supercilious self-confidence, there is no need to show off the comparison. Because of her humble but noble quality, becoming a better person is never vanity, but cultivation.

From elementary school and junior high school to high school and university, we will meet more and more people and all kinds of people on the way forward. The university is a small society, and you will find, alas, how can there be such people? All these people are here, right? Yes, that's right. The world is full of wonders. You can meet all kinds of people. In the virtual network era, under the impetuous and vain environment, there will also be lotus flowers with mud and sand.

Today, with the development of network information, you can always see many people taking selfies on various social platforms, showing off their wealth and showing themselves by various means. In a small environment, such as our university, some people enjoy taking selfies, eating delicious food and sharing their love experiences in qq space circle of friends every day. They used to share their feelings and joy, but now they satisfy their vanity through these favorite comments. Take a selfie in the sun if you have nothing to do. Whatever you do, you should tell everyone in the world. In fact, you are just entertaining yourself and living in a false scene. If you are really beautiful, you will get too much sun, but if you are not beautiful, you are actually ineffective in the eyes of others except family and friends. As an audience, it's nice to see it occasionally, but I've seen it more than once. No matter love or friendship, there is no need to show others what is really good. It doesn't mean that the more comments you like, the longer your relationship and the more girlfriends you have.

Whether studying or doing activities, in fact, no matter what you do at school, there are always people who can't wait to show their talents. If there are differences of opinion, they can't wait to tell you in your ear how correct her point of view is, and they can always tell the world in various ways after getting the results. I can't wait for the whole broadcast, and I can't wait for a big meal once in a while. I hope everyone knows that she is rich, and don't forget to tell her roommate in the mirror every day that she is the most beautiful anyway. All this stems from her lack of confidence and vanity.

No matter whether there is ink in my stomach or not, I want others to praise her for her talent, and no matter what her appearance and figure are, I want others to praise her for her beauty. Find others' achievements but don't want to accept their own shortcomings. I have made some achievements, and I hope the whole world will praise me, because my inner world is not full, I don't recognize myself, and I urgently need other people's language to satisfy myself. Because vanity is burning and the desire to show off is unstoppable, flowers and applause are always needed to move forward.

But I can also see some people with excellent grades, excellent popularity and decent work. They never deliberately express themselves in the crowd, but they have a supercilious attitude. She won't argue with you after some remarks, because she convinced herself in her heart. My gestures reveal confidence and elegance, and I will never publicize how many places I have been, how many books I have read and how talented I am. Smile at the gossip. In the face of other people's vanity show, still smiled. She doesn't need to express herself by attacking others, nor does she need to brag and laugh at others to show herself, nor does she need to follow the crowd to reduce her grievances. Have a clear goal, go your own way in an orderly way, live with an attitude, have a warm feeling, and improve your self-cultivation step by step.

In fact, in the past, I couldn't help talking about travel, food and selfies. But slowly, I understand more and more that what really warms you is not the praise and comments in the space, but the people who really care about you. Your life doesn't need to be known by the whole world, whether it's happiness or pain, it doesn't need to be shared in many cases. In fact, to ask myself, I still hope that others will like me when sending those things. On the one hand, show your popularity, on the other hand, satisfy yourself. Generally speaking, it's my vanity. Gradually, I told myself to restrain myself and suppress my vanity that I was eager to show. Later, you will find that, in fact, you will live a more interesting life without these.

Now I seldom look at the space, and I have no desire to talk about it at all, because there are many people in my qq, and I don't need or want to show them everything I have. I also found that the excellent people around me are the same, and rarely post anything on social platforms. It's better to spend more time with people who love you and read more books to improve yourself when you have time. I don't use social software to chat with others everywhere. In fact, knowing more people is just to cover up my loneliness and boredom. In WeChat, there are not many people except family and friends, and you don't need many people. You have to understand that no matter what you do, only those who really care about you will care, others will not really care, but they will get more and more tired of your show. Occasionally send some pictures in the circle of friends, which are also for relatives and friends who are far away from home. You don't need to send photos to be caring and attentive. In fact, it still depends on your inner purpose, and you know best.

People who are really cultured don't want to show off, let alone show off. I'm trying to walk like this. In that era of disturbing the truth, what you have to overcome is your vanity and your desire to show off. What you have to deal with is your cleverness that you always want to rush out and show off.