My boyfriend jokingly said to me, "If I don't obey, I will get a septic tank warning." Should I break up?

It’s not that girls can’t take jokes and will break up if they say a few words, but this kind of teasing has risen to the level of personal views and whether there are problems. Making fun of other people's misfortunes as a joke, especially to your own girlfriend, is simply mindless. However, you can't beat him to death with a stick. It depends on the boy's later performance. If you really feel that it shouldn't be the case and promise that it won't happen again in the future, don't break up impulsively for the time being and observe it for a while. 1. If you refuse to apologize and think you are making a fuss out of a molehill, then I will break it up.

First of all, septic tank warnings, two-ton water warnings, and thanking husbands for not killing her have indeed gradually filled our lives as the case of the missing woman in Hangzhou was solved. Especially when I see the XX warning comments on some online platforms, I feel that some netizens have turned this human tragedy that happened in Hangzhou into entertainment. I can't understand it and don't find it funny.

But even so, you must keep your own bottom line. You can't control what others say, but you can learn to be strict with yourself. Less teasing will lead to less harm. Think about the heartache and helplessness that the families of the victims would feel if they accidentally saw these remarks. It is useless to add salt to the wounds.

Because the nature of the case in Hangzhou was so bad and cruel, it caused some people to panic and fear marriage to a certain extent. So at this time, I personally think it is very inappropriate to tease a girlfriend or a female friend about "septic tank warning if they don't obey".

So if the boyfriend who said this not only has no intention of apologizing or repenting, but also says he is too glass-hearted, and uses this excuse to frustrate you, everyone is saying it, but I can’t say it. Then you can be ready to break up. Because he doesn't know where you are angry, it means that your three views are no longer on the same level. Or maybe he never thought that this was disrespectful to the victims and their families, and it was also disrespectful to you. 2. If he realizes the inappropriateness of this statement, he can stay and observe.

Another situation is that after having a serious conversation with him about your views on this sentence and expressing your anger, he can realize that he should not do it in time. In the Internet age where information circulates at a high speed, news reports about the wife-murder case in Hangzhou have flooded into our lives, and it is difficult for us not to be affected.

If you don’t react for a while and laugh at the tragedy as a joke, you can quickly correct it after being awakened by others. You are still a child and can be taught, so don’t rush to break up. Of course, we need to observe him for a while to see how he will treat this kind of thing later. 3. "Go hiking together" can be used as a joke to make fun of, but "Septic tank warning" is best not.

For example, if you become popular? Let’s go mountain climbing together? This sentence is so popular that it has become a source of ridicule and entertainment for everyone. This is because this is a fictional novel. In real life, no one would actually climb a mountain with Zhang Dongsheng, the character in the film and television drama, and then die, so it is understandable to use it as a joke.

Septic tank warnings and other similar remarks that are generated by real social events are not suitable for ridicule. This is not a humorous expression. Because it is based on others losing their most precious lives and families losing their closest family members. It’s not that I can’t make jokes, but steamed buns with human blood are not delicious, and there must be a bottom line in teasing.