How long will it be boring to get married?

After three years of marriage, I began to get bored. I think it usually takes about three or four years, especially after having children, people will soon get tired of marriage and each other.

Not long after we got married, we were pregnant with a baby. Because of malnutrition and my poor cooking, my husband has no time to take care of me. I only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while and my mother's house for a while. At that time, I felt that I was gradually estranged from my husband. I have told him many times that his mother is not my mother. He can't treat me as my mother, but he just won't listen. He always said that his parents were fine, so what? But when I arrived at my in-laws' house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day and didn't cook on time. My father-in-law smokes at home every day, but it's no use talking about it. At this time, he always said that I was not sensible, and so on, and gradually found that I didn't want to call him to say this.

Then I went back to my mother's house, and my mother took care of me. She has a lot of things to do, but she also takes care of me wholeheartedly. Because I vomited too much during pregnancy, my appetite was really poor, and I was very picky about food, so I could feel my parents' distress. Later, after giving birth to a child, my in-laws didn't say anything about helping with the baby or helping with the baby. Anyway, my mother took care of my confinement, and he felt that his mother's waist was bad. I have to understand that she can't come.

Later, we couldn't take care of the baby alone, and we really couldn't take care of it alone, so we took the baby back to our parents' house. His parents didn't call each other. At first, we called each other every day. Later, I didn't want to answer his phone or talk to him too much. After we separated for about ten months, I don't think we can feel in love anymore. We had just been married for three years.