Mother-in-law doesn't help children.

In fact, many elderly people do not have children now, and they also have many concerns.

First of all, children come from the older generation. If adopted, they may be spoiled and unable to form independence effectively.

The second argument is that if the mother-in-law takes care of the children, it is actually the beginning of the crack in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Because when a child is disobedient, he can't beat and scold, but as the mother of the child, you want the child to get an effective education, so you will quarrel over the education of the child.

So the idea of the older generation is that since I can't take care of it well, I might as well just refuse and not have children.