How do Yunnan people ask for advice?

Like other provinces, Yunnan people have good people and bad people. The people I know in Yunnan have an elusive pride in their bones. I come from Hunan and have lived in Kunming for more than three years. Most Yunnan people around me have a sense of pride, especially Kunming people, who are called "Ye", which makes people feel inaccessible. I think when I was studying in Changsha, the people I met were much more enthusiastic, and we would easily make jokes. I don't know if it's an individual phenomenon I encountered. I don't know where the pride of Yunnan people comes from. . . . There are many Hunan businessmen doing business here, and many of them have become "Kunming people". It is very important to always keep a warm, humble and tolerant heart. Here, we shout out the slogan of Hunan people: only suffering without bullying, heartless, and rice.