How to treat the mother-in-law with her children for living expenses?

It is really hard for an elderly mother-in-law to go home and take care of the children's housework after the daughter-in-law gives birth to the child. But should my mother-in-law need living expenses? Let's take a look at the answers from netizens!

User 1:

What do you take this kind of living expenses as? Or don't you accept this idea put forward by your mother-in-law at all? This should be clear. You can't give your mother-in-law living expenses while complaining to others. Things are balanced, and so are the feelings between relatives at home. Mother-in-law helps you do housework and take care of the children. Do you want to return? Maybe you feel embarrassed to give the living expenses directly, or you are not used to it. You can give your mother-in-law some money every week on weekdays, saying that this is the food for your family this week. Pay more, and the rest is naturally her own. You can also give some red envelopes to the elderly on holidays, which is what the younger generation should do.

Netizen 2:

I think this is very suitable. The mother-in-law will take care of your children to do housework, but she can't go out to earn money. Moreover, most of the things my mother-in-law buys are for your family to stutter, and my mother-in-law only eats a mouthful of rice. How much can she spend when she is free to take the children out? Mother-in-law can't have no money, but also let her father-in-law send her money all the way. People should learn to be grateful, and more importantly, help you look after your children!

Netizen 3:

Mother-in-law has no obligation to look after our children. Even if she doesn't have children, we have to give her living expenses. This is the duty of being a son and daughter-in-law. If my mother-in-law doesn't take care of our children, maybe she can work and earn more income. At present, we should be rewarded for taking care of our children and working hard. Besides, if my mother-in-law doesn't take her children, should we pay more for a nanny?

Netizen 4:

I think it's normal, don't say my mother-in-law wants it, even if her mother-in-law doesn't take the initiative, we will take the initiative to give it. It's really tiring to look after the children. Generally, it's even more tiring to look after the children when the mother-in-law is not young, so we should not only take care of the children, but also take care of the elderly on both sides. The mother-in-law is also a mother. I hope I can cherish it, and don't wait for my mother-in-law to leave before I know how to be filial and grateful.

Netizen 5:

Living expenses, of course, these living expenses are also used for your daily expenses. Do you want your mother-in-law to contribute money? Do you want to get old? A nanny's salary, plus three meals a day and other expenses, calculate how much it will cost. Not only to pay, but also to pay more. Give the daily expenses to the mother-in-law, let her make the decision, and it's OK, worry-free.

Netizen 6:

Why don't you talk to your mother-in-law about this? You shouldn't give yourself some. If you give her too little and ask too much, you can talk about it. Moreover, she didn't spend the necessary living expenses alone. I believe some of them are still for her grandchildren. It is natural that no one should take care of anyone.

Bian Xiao wants to say, "If my mother-in-law is really short of money, she won't take care of your children. As a son and daughter-in-law, you should also give it to her. And if she wants to save some pocket money by taking care of the children, it is reasonable. After all, as an elderly person, it is really not easy to bring up the eldest son and then the eldest grandson. Therefore, the daughter-in-law should understand her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law did not specifically say how much she wanted. Everything depends on you. After all, it is a family, and family is more important than money. "

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