50 college suggestions to improve your ability to deal with people.

50 suggestions for improving people's ability to deal with others.

1, even if you are good friends, please keep a distance of three points. Going too close will inevitably lead to extremes meet.

Everyone likes to hear good words, so learn to say good words, that is, kiss up. A kind word may be more useful than your great efforts.

3, get along with people, we must be sincere, but we must never be honest, we must be sincere under the premise of reservations.

4, you must learn to refuse, the first time you will feel embarrassed, feel uneasy, refuse more, you will find that people become much more relaxed.

You must have your own principles or personality. Some people think why you are so formal. Isn't it good to be casual? In fact, the more casual you are, the more casual others will be to you until you are not taken seriously.

6. Helping others is still necessary, but don't be a good person. Being too kind to others will make others unbearable.

If you want to be bosom friends, don't mention anything about money. I mean, anything. Talking about money always hurts feelings.

8. If you talk too much, you lose. You will suffer if you talk too much. Listen more and talk less, think more and argue less.

9, don't get to the bottom of it, it will make people very annoying, and there will be no good feelings from now on.

10, don't speak ill of b to c, you will be betrayed sooner or later, and you will lose both b and C.

1 1. Don't poke others' pain points. Even if you are a good friend, you can joke once or twice, and many people will think you are malicious.

12, don't say one thing and do another. Very unpleasant. Are you speechless that you should meet such a person?

13, be sure to be concise. Everyone is impatient. Over time, they don't want to listen to you.

14, when others help you, be sure to keep it in mind, pay it back when it is time, and pay it back when it is time.

15. Don't accept others' help easily. You may be in a dilemma.

16, don't complain about your own suffering when you meet people. Most people are not interested. Let's talk about a topic that everyone cares about.

17. Don't reveal your plan to others at will. Do it quietly if you have an idea. The competition is fierce now. Maybe when you say that, the opportunity will become someone else's, and then you will turn against each other.

18, you must be grateful to the person who can help you at a critical moment, because at least it shows that he is a very kind person.

19, affection, love, and finally friendship, make the order clear.

20. We always show the worst to those close to us. Therefore, the closer you are, you must control your emotions.

2 1, connections should be kept, otherwise, when you need help, how dare you ask, why should others help you?

22. Nothing in this world is natural. It is an obligation to help you, and it is an obligation not to help you. Don't feel hurt easily.

23. When everyone is chatting together, shut up and listen if you don't understand. If you don't pretend to understand and can't say a word or two, everyone will think you are hypocritical and boring.

When others help you, we often say thank you. In fact, you can say "thank you" and the other person will feel better.

25. Don't impose your ideas on others. Even if it is right, you will only say it once. It stinks like shit.

26, get along with people, pay more attention to his advantages, blindly staring at his shortcomings, then few people in this world are really worth paying, after all, everyone has shortcomings.

27, for those who don't respect you, resolutely fight back, not only to warn him, but also to warn others around you, don't take me seriously.

28. For someone who hasn't been in touch for a long time, one day he suddenly sends you a message. Be alert, refuse and refuse.

29. There is never a free lunch in this world. Never. If there is, it is either cheating or there is greater interest behind the other party. Keep your eyes open.

Don't interrupt others' speech at will, even if what he says is wrong, it will hurt the other person's self-esteem once or twice and even attract hatred.

3 1, work hard in secret, don't make all kinds of noise before things are done, everyone is generally concerned about the results, who will care about those processes.

Don't be selfish. You think others can't see it, but you don't want to expose you and embarrass you.

33. When you get along with others, it goes without saying that you are 100% considerate of others, but you should also think about it, which will show that you are a very kind person.

34. When boys and girls get along, they should first respect girls, then keep an appropriate distance, and finally keep an appropriate distance.

Don't look down on anyone at will. Really awesome people tend to keep a low profile.

36. Learn to laugh at yourself. On the one hand, it will make you look modest, on the other hand, it will make others hard to guard against.

37. Don't show off at will. You know there are many people who are stronger than you. They're hiding around you, and you don't know it.

38, don't be a lever, many arguments are meaningless, enough is enough.

39. You don't have to be too nice to anyone. The more expectations, the greater disappointment.

40. Don't flatter all kinds of arrogant people, which will only backfire and make others look down on you.

4 1, don't be arrogant with your own weak people, be a kind person who knows how to respect others' kindness.

42. When I went to someone's house, I noticed that the director was a little impatient and took the initiative to leave.

43. Don't get involved in other people's family affairs, just give some advice.

44. When others praise you, try to be modest. Without a little sunshine, it will be brilliant. People just talk about it.

45. Don't call names, especially those you are not particularly familiar with. Some people really care, some people may not care, just stop talking.

46. Don't tell the whole story about yourself, even if it is a good relationship.

47. Don't be too absolute. If you make a mistake, if you get hit in the face, it will be embarrassing.

48. If you can't do it, don't make promises. It won't be long before your credit goes bankrupt.

49. Be open-minded and open-minded, and always maintain a learning attitude.

50. In fact, to be a man, one is to make others feel comfortable, depending on your words and deeds, and the other is to achieve your own goals, depending on how much help you provide to each other or what value you can provide in the future.