If there is an afterlife, just be your own daughter.

Someone sent this sentence to the question-and-answer section of the media to let the spectators talk about their understanding of this sentence. There are nearly 9000 respondents, male and female, old and young, who agree with more than 90% of the idea of text descriptors; There are also 4% men, most of whom talk about reproduction, accusing the woman of being selfish, only considering her own feelings and being irresponsible for human development; The remaining 6% think that marriage can bring her good feelings and experiences! May the afterlife be the continuation of this life.

Seeing this passage, I was silent for a long time! I really want to talk about my own views! But the words were written and deleted, deleted and rewritten, and finally gave up after repeated times, because the taste was really unclear and there was no need to make it clear. Even if I put this passage here now, there is no comment. I struggled repeatedly and decided to let it return to the original truth. Take down the excerpts of the respondents and let friends experience it for themselves!

1. If there is an afterlife, I will never get married or have children. I can live quietly, drive, work and support myself. Why should I wait on others? Our parents raised us and set up in-laws for us. From now on, I will earn money for a family that is not related to blood, be filial to those who are not related to you, and pay little to my parents! A person, a house, a cup of tea and a dog, isn't this a good life?

I can fight tigers in the mountains and dragons in the sea. I can go to work to fight for my career and go home to take care of the young and old. I can provoke the national beam and take social responsibility. I can cook by car, and I can have children who understand education. I know everything. Why should you honor other people's mothers after being raised by your parents? What's more, if you are slightly dissatisfied, you must blame and criticize? Why bother?

Therefore, if there is an afterlife, I just need a person, a room, a cup of tea and a dog to accompany me in my years, and I don't want a so-called husband to participate in my life like an uncle.

I don't need an afterlife. I have awakened in my life. I no longer try to be satisfied with perfection. I have begun to plan my life and do what I like. My husband is just a child-raising partner. For my two daughters, my goal is to teach them to love themselves. They must know that they are the people who need management and care most. As for them not getting married and having children in the future, I will definitely support them!

The words of the second reader remind me of the controversial matter of Ye Haiyang buying sperm some time ago.

Ye Haiyang is the SEO of a cosmetics company, which is typical of white and avant-garde. She chose not to get married but to be a mother. She spent 500 thousand from a foreign sperm bank to get pregnant and have children through artificial insemination.

I saw pictures of her and her children. The leaves in the photo are sunny, beautiful and intellectual. Children are happy, healthy and full of childlike interest. Ye Haiyang is willing to raise young children alone. Although it's hard, I don't have to worry about whose bed my father sleeps tonight. I will have a crush on that woman tomorrow, not to mention the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and then I have to face the cold shoulder of others!

? 3. If it weren't for the pain, who could give up the fireworks? However, after experiencing love and stepping into the grave of life and marriage, I realized that I just gave myself wholeheartedly. Therefore, in the afterlife, I will not get married, I will not be infertile, I will just be myself, be filial to my parents and devote myself wholeheartedly.

If I can, I want to be unmarried and sterile, be free and take good care of my parents. When I get old, find a quiet place and slowly turn to dust.

More than 8,000 people answered, with various opinions. I only give a few examples, and I don't mean to generalize!

Finally, borrow a passage from San Mao to tie a knot:

If there is an afterlife, it is better to marry than not to do it, regardless of men or women, just standing on a tree: don't rely on it, don't look for it; Silent and proud ...