My sister picked up my brother after school, and his brother responded with envy. Netizen: What kind of fairy second child family is this?

After the opening of the second child policy, many families have also entered the plan to prepare for a second child. After all, if children have a companion, they won't be so lonely. When they grow up, they will also have a mutual concern.

However, as we all know, although the second child is a very happy family structure, the relationship between the second children is also a problem that bothers parents. Every time I see children arguing with each other over some trivial matters, they don't know how to mediate their relationship.

But some second-child relationships are so good that everyone can't imagine. Affected by this epidemic, my brother can only stay at home and go to class online, and have more time to accompany his sister, which also makes her feel very happy. But now my brother needs to go back to school because the epidemic situation in various places has been effectively controlled.

For a time, my sister found it difficult to adapt and missed my brother very much every day. In order to see my brother and sister early, I asked my mother to pick up my brother from school.

When the mother and daughter came to meet her at the gate of my brother's school after school, we could see many students coming out one after another. After seeing my brother's figure from a distance, my sister excitedly ran to play with her brother's arm. When my brother saw her coming, he picked her up and picked her up.

After this picture was uploaded to the internet by my mother, it caused discussion among many netizens. Netizens were also amused by the interaction between the two brothers and sisters and expressed their views one after another. Some netizens said that this brother is so warm, his boyfriend is bursting with strength, and the way his sister ran to his brother is really cute. I also want to have such a sister.

The relationship between the second child itself is a headache for parents, but this pair of brothers and sisters have completely resolved this contradiction. The relationship between the two is very friendly, which makes other second-child families who always quarrel at home very envious.

1, treat Dabao and Bauer equally.

Parents always have extra prejudice against age, thinking that young people should be more caring. Especially when buying toys and clothes, they will be more inclined to Bao Xiao, but in fact, this practice of parents will only bring a great blow to Dabao.

Especially when Bao Xiao was not born, the family's love was given to Dabao, but after Bao Xiao was born, most of his parents' love was separated, which would make Dabao's heart fall apart and naturally he would not want to be close to Bao Xiao, so there would be conflicts between the second children.

Therefore, what parents should do is to treat Dabao and Bauer equally, and try to buy the same double when shopping, so as not to let the children have a psychological gap.

2. Don't have the idea of controlling the small by the big.

Children of this age always have all kinds of contradictions. Parents should not always think that older people should give way to younger people. Actually, they are all children. Parents always let the older children give up the younger ones, which is unfair to Dabao.

Don't compare Dabao with Bauer.

Although both children are born to their parents, there may be some gaps in their lives, especially in their grades and personalities. At this time, many parents may make fun of and compare the two children, and will deliberately use Bao Xiao's clever and sensible performance to stimulate Dabao, hoping to give Dabao more motivation. But in fact, this way will only give Dabao more blows and make Dabao feel resentful.

The relationship between two children is an eternal topic. Since parents have decided to have a second child, they should consider the relationship between the two children. When the children are in conflict, they should give them the right to deal with the problem as much as possible, which will not only improve their problem-solving ability, but also promote the development of their relationship.

Parenting is not a child's play, let children take fewer detours.