Ling Ling, a scheming woman with a poor heart

The TV series "The First Half of My Life" has ended. Some people are very angry with Ling Ling, who is the mistress. Why? A scheming woman did so many infuriating things with very dishonest means, but in the end she was forgiven by Chen Junsheng, which is simply ruining the world.

Let’s talk about Ling Ling.

Ling Ling has always been a scheming person, even to the point of resorting to unscrupulous means. She can be serious and upright on the stage, but she is also very skilled when she uses tricks behind the scenes. In the heart, it is really easy to switch.

But the overall background of this person is gloomy. His inner desire is dissatisfied and his grasping outward appearance makes him feel very lacking, and he is neither spiritually nor materially rich.

What she likes to say is how others can get it, and she is jealous of Boss Chen's full-time wife's easy and prosperous life; after becoming Mrs. Chen, she is very jealous of Luo Zijun, Ping'er, and Chen Junsheng's parents who later accepted her. He is really justified in being mean and selfish. He wants to get to the big house awarded to Luo Zijun; he drives Luo Zijun to move as soon as possible; he enrolls his son in a foreign summer camp worth more than 40,000 yuan, and enrolls Ping'er in a domestic class worth 8,000 yuan; and evicts Chen Junsheng's parents from the big house. Go, etc., she uses various methods to achieve her own goals, which is extremely selfish and stingy. This desperate grabbing look is the expression of a very hungry person: These are finally mine, do you want to share them with me? No way! It’s really lacking

Ling Ling is a person who pays great attention to pragmatism. The so-called moral rights and wrongs in the eyes of everyone can be said to be irrelevant to her. She has her own rules and ways of doing things, and this way is very often very It works. Generally speaking, according to the law of the jungle, most people are accustomed to using force when encountering problems. They overwhelm the other party in terms of momentum and ability to settle a matter. Secondly, they use the principle of leverage and balance to get what they need and make a fair deal. For someone like Ling Ling who is very good at controlling her emotions, she will first choose different ways to achieve her goals based on the results she wants. Especially her ability to "use weakness" is very good, which means she is good at showing weakness. .

In order to marry Chen Junsheng, Chu Chu Keling retreated to gain Chen Junsheng's favor and guilt; Chen Junsheng's parents did not accept her, so she wronged herself and even Jiaqing, and used softness to overcome strength; in the face of Tang Jing's aggressiveness, she could still compromise. In order to stay in Morning Star and return to Morning Star, he made two humble promises to Tang Jing; and after betraying business information to frame Tang Jing, he knelt down in front of Chen Junsheng and cried out his grievances without any violation. Not only did Chen Junsheng obediently give up his professional principles, he actually thought that he was a man, taking advantage of other people's sympathy and showing weakness to completely control others to achieve his own goals.

Even so, because of Ling Ling's lack of life background and slightly gloomy way of thinking, her life is destined to never be easy. Because a person's way of doing things, or the way that maximized his benefits in the past, he will always be accustomed to and use it naturally and often. This is everyone's survival instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and it is written into the code of life. This is a unique program that is difficult to modify. Unless you encounter a serious life trauma like Luo Zijun, you will be able to change it, reformat it, and reinstall the program. And Ling Ling is obviously not Luo Zijun who only thinks in a straight line.

Therefore, Ling Ling, who is good at scheming, is not happy. Although she has achieved her goal whether by "using strength" or "using weakness", we can all see that Ling Ling is really unhappy, although She moved into Luo Zijun's former big house. Although she was recognized as the daughter-in-law by the Chen family, and although she entered and exited the workplace respectfully, her gnashing of teeth, crying, and restlessness when she was alone were completely opposite to those of being relaxed, happy, and down-to-earth. He looks like a person who is always thinking about how to win others in something. He has given all his thoughts to others, how can he have time to nourish his own heart? The result of inconsistent words is more grievance and depression, more unwillingness and dissatisfaction, because too much emotional labor has been paid.

Everything develops according to rules. Is Ling Ling, who feels that the whole world owes her, really a winner in life as some viewers say? Analyzing her future from normal logic will obviously be more difficult.

After the extremely vicious business leak incident, Ling Ling’s public apology was an expedient act under the coercion of Luo Zijun, and it was not a true remorse. Therefore, she would never return to Morningstar because she wanted to take revenge. All the consequences of Tang Jing will appear on her, and her relationship with Chen Junsheng may even affect the board of directors' trust in Chen. It can be safely said that Ling Ling has basically lost her reputation in the industry, and Tang Jing is still there. It is basically impossible for her to make a comeback in this industry. Talking about the relationship between husband and wife, he heard with his own ears that Chen Junsheng told Zijun that he wanted to go back to the past. Ling Ling should understand better than anyone what this meant. This kind of grudge was like a thorn firmly embedded in her heart. .

No matter how careful you are, it will not turn into great wisdom. If your heart is not rich, no matter how many things you hold in your hands, it will be a burden.

Ling Ling is hateful, Ling Ling is pitiful.