Why do you say you shouldn’t be too impatient when chasing girls?

Boys are very eager for love. When they meet a girl they like, they often want to pursue her desperately. Face the girl you like. Some people take it step by step, steadily, but some people are particularly impatient. This is counterproductive.

First, love is not an equal transaction. If you are good to others, they must be good to you. Some people always like to use their own opinions to measure other people's thoughts and carry out moral kidnapping without realizing it.

For a girl you love, you have to keep giving, but there is always a feeling of wanting to get something in return. On the contrary, this will make the girl feel wary and move away from you. If you are impatient, the girl will lose her good impression of you. I am afraid that sometimes she will not even give you a chance to examine you.

Second, being impatient is somewhat utilitarian. Some people get for the sake of getting, which usually makes girls feel very insecure. Because the relationship does not come naturally, this kind of mood is not accepted and understood by the other party, but it feels stressful.

And girls who are too aggressive will doubt your sincerity. A pursuit that is too utilitarian will make people feel offended. There is no such thing as pie in the sky. Being nice to someone for no reason will make people wary. There is no sense of happiness like a spring breeze.

Third, it’s a bit silly to use too much force. Some boys are very eager to pursue, seeming a bit rude and not so elegant. Girls are usually emotional creatures. If you can't do what she likes and act stupidly without using your brain, you will definitely not get good results, and it will also lower the girl's evaluation of you.

We used to have a buddy who liked a girl wholeheartedly, but that girl ended up with another boy who was handsome and good at flirting with girls.