It is a kind of happiness to pay tuition for children easily.

? The school season is coming, and many parents have to prepare tuition for their children. My son goes to college, and the tuition fee is nearly 6000 yuan, because he has to go to Chongqing to take the exam before going to school. It also needs 2000 to 3000 yuan, including travel expenses and accommodation, as well as air tickets from Chongqing to Beijing. The child's father suddenly transferred 10000 yuan to the child, thinking of leaving some living expenses for the child, and fearing that his son was financially strapped, he transferred another 2000 yuan. Mr. Wang asked his son if he was happy after paying, and his son said yes. Looking at my husband's generosity and excitement, I suddenly feel that he should be a little proud and satisfied, and be able to hand over the tuition to the children effortlessly.

Our generation has gone through difficult times. We are often worried about school fees. In primary school, we only had one or two yuan of tuition fees, but our family always failed to pay them on time. I remember, my father told me that there was no money at home, so why not give the teacher some cabbage? In high school, I went to my sister's house to borrow money in order to make up the tuition of 100. After many twists and turns, I handed over a stack of ten-dime, twenty-dime, fifty-dime, one-dollar, two-dollar, five-dollar and ten-dollar bills. The teacher who received my money looked at the pile of nondescript money I handed in and was surprised. When I was in college, I rode my bike to support my mother and visited all the relatives I could borrow in order to make up for the tuition of several hundred yuan. Looking back now, the humble feeling is still very sad.

? Mr. Wang lives in a small mountain village in the south of Henan, and all his income depends on several acres of fertile land and some mountain products planted by his father-in-law. When Mr. Wang was a child, he had to eat a steamed bun one day, so he didn't have enough to eat. Paying tuition every time the school starts is a difficult problem. Mr. Wang said that once he went home to ask his father-in-law for money and asked him if he had any money. His father-in-law said, yes! He is very happy. He used to say no when he came home to ask for money, but this time he finally said yes. Mr. Wang asked how many, and my father-in-law said there were two. The tuition fee is six yuan, which is still not enough. He went to his cousin's house to borrow money. His uncle said that a few dollars should not be a problem, but he had no money and had to wait for his son to come back. As a result, his son was not so generous and unwilling to borrow the money.

My husband and I both graduated from college, and when we were young, we suffered from lack of money. When we got married, we borrowed 3000 yuan for a simple wedding, and our married life started with a negative number. Experienced the embarrassment of not paying wages for several months. In the first year of marriage, I once gave my husband 300 yuan to deposit in the bank. He put it in the drawer of his office, and then it was stolen. For this reason, my husband came home and shed tears. In the rental house, the house was ransacked by thieves, leaving no slightly better clothes and bedding. After the birth of my son, life is still not very rich, perhaps influenced by our frugality. The son never loves vanity and never spends money recklessly. I still remember two experiences of shopping in the supermarket. Once in Honglian supermarket, my son wanted to buy a box of Oreo cookies, but his father refused to buy them. The son held the biscuit in his arms and shouted, "I want it, I want Oreo." Another time in Carrefour, my son wanted to buy instant noodles from Master Kong. My husband took a bag of "Fumanduo" and lied to his son that it was "Master Kong" (Fumanduo is cheaper than Master Kong). The son pointed to the instant noodles and said, Dad lied, this is not Master Kong, this is the word "Duo" (at that time, the son just learned to read and only knew the word "Duo" on the instant noodle packaging bag). Talking about these things with my husband now has reduced a lot of bitterness in the past. We just talk about it as a joke. Fortunately, my husband and I have been going uphill. After my son went to school, he never felt sorry for the tuition.

After I graduated from college, I gave up the opportunity to take the postgraduate entrance examination because of my family's economic situation. I just wanted to go to work quickly to make money to subsidize my family. Now that my son is in college, we have saved enough for his tuition. After graduation, we can provide for him to study at home or abroad. To tell the truth, we are glad to be able to afford our children to study. We don't want our children to suffer what we suffered as children, especially because of money. I once told my son that wherever you want to study, we all support you. In our time, there are many examples of people who have been admitted to school but choose not to study because they have no money. Under the economic distress, we dare not talk about our ideals and pursuits, and all our choices are for life. Now the economic conditions at home are good. I hope my son can follow his heart to choose his favorite major, his favorite lifestyle and boldly pursue his ideals. And we are always willing to be the ladder for him to fly high. He can fly as high as he can, and with his dreams, plus his parents' dreams, he can see the world more.

When parents are old, we can give them a slightly richer life. When parents are sick, we will not let them suffer from illness because of medical expenses. If our children work hard, they will not be held back by tuition fees. When relatives around you need it, they can also lend a helping hand. It's really good to get rid of the days of borrowing money to look after your face and pay for helping others. I can "give" and never "want".