Can the love that parents oppose come to the end?

There are many kinds of love that parents oppose, stick together and end in tragedy.

Parents object, stick together, and finally there are many kinds of happy love.

The key to solving the problem of parents' opposition is not simply to "stick together", but what concrete and effective actions you two have taken to stick to it.

In short, if the other parents don't agree to stay with you because you have nothing to do, you sleep at home every day, play games, and have no long-term stable job, always fishing for three days and drying the net for two days.

In this case, even if you hold your other half to demonstrate to her parents and hold hands and say "We are true love", then parents will feel from the bottom of their hearts that "you are the jinx of our family". They worked hard to raise their eldest daughter. Why do they have a crush on such a hopeless man? Married, it will never have a good result.

Without the blessing of parents, the main contradiction in the relationship has not been solved, and this kind of love will only be sad in all likelihood.

On the contrary, when the other person's parents think that "you are incapable and unqualified to give her happiness", you still have a strong fighting spirit and self-motivation, and you are trying to prove yourself every day. Although you haven't achieved much in a few years, at least you can guarantee that "if the other person's daughter marries you, it won't be a burden for you, at least you can live a well-off life safely".

If you can persist in this way, even if the other parents will not give you a good face, at least they will definitely attend your wedding, which is actually a silent recognition of your relationship.

The purpose of your persistence is to "solve the problem", not to threaten to force the other parents to agree with your so-called true love. As long as you insist on taking effective actions, it is only a matter of time before other parents see your determination.

Say a very realistic word: the best way to face insults is not to show weakness, nor to arouse the sympathy of the other party, which will only aggravate the boredom of the other party. The most correct way is to show your true strength, prove yourself, give each other a punch and let others put away their prejudice against you.

The most terrible thing is: you think that "as long as the other person really loves you", and finally the uncooked rice is cooked into a mature rice, the other parents can only be forced to agree. After that, you lived a boring marriage life of 3. 1 minute, and you didn't know what you should pursue, let alone be responsible for each other's future.

In the end, you will only fail a person who loves you wholeheartedly, not only without the blessing of your parents, but also with the sincerity of the other party.