Which woman made Bai Juyi linger for a long time, and she was only willing to get married when she was nearly 4?

Bai Juyi, with the word Letian, was a very famous poet in the Tang Dynasty. His poems were immortalized and praised throughout the ages. His life is also talked about by later generations. Apart from appreciating his works, his life is often celebrated. For example, when he got married, he was 37 years old. The life span of ancient people was not long, as early as 11 or 2 years old, and it is rare for people like Bai Juyi to marry at this age. What's the reason?

Bai Juyi is also one of the representative figures of romantic elegance. He once wrote a famous praise sentence that has been passed down through the ages: the cherry is full of flowers, and the willow has a small waist. This is what he wrote to his two concubines. From this point of view, Bai Juyi also has a lot of experience in love words. Let's talk about his marriage again. Although Bai Juyi was not born in a rich and expensive family, he also belonged to a clean stream. His grandfather and father were officials one after another, and Bai Juyi was admitted to the imperial examination when he was less than 3 years old, and his face was also very handsome. At that time, he could be called a constantly chauffeured with talent and face value.

However, Bai Juyi's marriage is bumpy. He wrote in Song of Eternal Sorrow: that we wished to fly in heaven, two birds with the wings of one, and to grow together on the earth, two branches of one tree.. If there is no personal empathy, how can he write such an affectionate poem by referring to Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan? This involves the story of him and the woman he finally missed.

Bai Juyi was sent to Suzhou by his father when he was young. At the age of 12, Bai Juyi once met a woman from a farmer's house at a Mid-Autumn Lantern Festival, named Xiang Ling, a talented woman and a beautiful woman. She was infatuated at first sight and fell in love soon. However, the family status between the two people is really disparity. Bai Juyi's mother firmly opposes this matter. After all, her family is an official's family. How can she marry a woman with a small family? Therefore, she blocked it in many ways and even made a move. Later, even though Bai Juyi was admitted to the imperial examination, she repeatedly asked her mother to marry Xiang Ling, but failed to do so.

? It may be out of anger, or it may be unforgettable for Xiang Ling. Since then, Bai Juyi has kept silent about the marriage, and it was only in desperation that he let go and married Yang. I just feel sorry for this young lady, because Bai Juyi has always been thinking about Xiangling girl, and he has no respect for his married wife. He once wrote in a poem: Although you don't study. Even said: not as good as a peasant woman! Isn't this a clear irony that his wife is not as good as Xiang Ling?

It's also because he couldn't be with his sweetheart that Bai Juyi gradually changed from a devoted lover to a promiscuous one. This is why, obviously, there can only be three courtesans in his official position, but he alone accounts for more than 3 prostitutes. It's hard to say whether Bai Juyi is devoted or ungrateful.