Why can't I tell my relatives about buying a house in the city?

It is not easy to buy a house. It was a very happy thing that someone tried their best to buy a house in the city. But some people like to hide after buying a house, especially those who don't tell their hometown. The reason for doing this is that I am afraid that after telling my hometown people, my hometown people will borrow money from themselves, and they will be jealous of their hometown people and have a strange relationship with themselves.

First, the reason for not telling relatives at home is that I am afraid of borrowing money from relatives at home. In some people's eyes, after seeing others buy a house, they will think that others have money, so they can afford to buy a house. They don't think that others have emptied all their pockets to buy a house. They don't think so.

When they see others buying a house, they think others are rich and borrow money from others. If others don't lend it to them, they will spread rumors and speak ill of others. Many people are afraid of meeting such relatives and simply don't tell them to buy a house.

Second, I told my relatives in my hometown that I was afraid they would be jealous of themselves if they knew. Some netizens spit out that when the family's economic situation was not good earlier, relatives got along well with themselves and even helped themselves, but when they developed better than them, those relatives would alienate themselves and even incite other relatives to exclude themselves.

This is caused by jealousy. Some relatives will be jealous when they see others buying a house, and will say that others are not good. Many people are afraid of meeting such relatives, so in order to avoid their jealousy and maintain their relationship, they will not tell them about buying a house.

Third, the reason why I don't tell my relatives to buy a house is that I am afraid of causing myself a lot of trouble. Some relatives will trouble others in various ways when they know that others are buying a house in the city. For example, they will borrow other people's houses when they go to work in the city, and children will learn to borrow other people's houses when they go to school. In order to save myself these troubles, I didn't tell them that I bought a house in the city.

If you buy a house in the city, will you tell your relatives? Please leave a message below to express your opinion.