I want to be a pleasing person

People say that the older you get, the more you pay attention to a person’s inner self.

However, after turning thirty, I want to be a more pleasing person.

Watching the TV series, Dilireba in "You Are My Glory", she has a graceful figure, exquisite facial features, pleasing to the eye ~

Looking at the circle of friends, I saw the dance teacher I met before wearing this outfit The floral dress stands gracefully on the screen full of golden filigree, which is pleasing to the eye~

Looking at my four-year-old daughter, she has fair skin and lively eyes. She is so cute every time she smiles. Pleasing to the eye~

I also want to be a person that is pleasing to the eye!

In the past, I have always felt that what is on the inside is the most important thing. People who don’t know how to appreciate me don’t understand my inner beauty. People who understand me will definitely think that I am a treasure girl! As long as appearance is passable, don't force it.

The change in perception originated from the book "My Life" by Elon Musk's mother, Meyer Musk, which I read in November last year. This book is a biography of Meyer Musk. I was moved by her strength, optimism, boldness, and openness. But what impressed me most was her ancient but still pleasing appearance and her desire to always remain beautiful!

Yes, inner beauty is very important, but there is no need to ignore appearance! As a social person, having a dignified appearance, normal figure, and proper clothing is also a sign of respect for others! Even if it is not to please others, don’t we need to please ourselves as a human being?

I named my daughter Yuexin just because I wanted her to "please myself, others, and my heart"! I seem to have neglected the most basic self-pleasure!

Let’s talk about me~

I have always been in the slightly fat world, and I can’t be said to be ugly. I have fair skin (the source of my daughter’s white skin) and regular facial features. Although I am fat, I am not ugly. She has a well-proportioned figure and is a cute type in the eyes of those around her who can accept being fat. But if we say it’s pleasing to the eye, that’s not even possible!

My weight loss career began after I gained aesthetics in adolescence. In high school, dieting damaged my stomach. In college, I used konjac powder, lotus leaf powder, and raw bitter melon as meal replacements. After that, I used yoga and fitness. What was the result?

Let’s talk about a set of data. When I was in college, my weight was as low as 53 kilograms, and then it soared to 60 kilograms during the summer vacation. After that, it skyrocketed again and again. I was about 64 kilograms before giving birth, and once was 75 kilograms after giving birth. , returned to 65 kilograms after exercising. Now, a year has passed and my weight has been hovering at 70 kilograms.

Yes, the above data shows that if you want to be pleasing to the eye, the first thing you need to do is lose weight!

Well, this time I’m really going to be motivated to lose weight!

In addition to losing weight, there are also skin care and buying clothes...

Here comes the most practical thing, these all require money!

Therefore, if you want to be a pleasing person, you must first have money!

Haha, I’d better move the bricks first!