How do you handle robbery?

Hello, landlord! It is really difficult to encounter such a thing, but it is not impossible. It is impossible to use conventional methods. This is a technical job, which means that if you don't have a good foundation to operate it, you are basically waiting to be "live".

Let's give a very simple example to introduce:

He takes you to their lair, surrounded by soldiers and crabs. At this time, you should keep calm, because in the other person's mind, it is natural to think that you have become their bag, and it is logical to think that you should be scared at the moment, but you are calm. If there is a cigarette at this time, you can light one slowly. If there is no lyrical wine, the other party will unconsciously leave a god in their hearts and be wary of action. At this time, you got out of the car and looked around very calmly with no expression. Suddenly, you smiled and asked, "Robbery?" Between this smile and this question, if handled well, the other party may flinch.

At this time, I began to talk nonsense, saying that our country is powerful and has launched many satellites into space. I also said that I am a national intelligence officer, and mobile phones and satellites are connected together. As long as I give the signal, the troops will appear nearby in 10 minutes. This sentence is tepid, like a mountain stream, which is slow and urgent. Too imposing to show off; Too soft, lack of gas, it is better not to say. Only lukewarm, can give people the illusion of background, wisdom is as foolish as a fool, can achieve the effect of deeply shocking each other's hearts, and let them feel that I have nothing to hide. I am by no means vain and mysterious, making them feel that things will not end well and really start to worry.

However, at this time, I suddenly changed my tone and said that I knew everyone's life was not easy and how hard it was. Lala always talked about that bitter history, and then warned that it was not worth it, but put her future and life into it for a few dollars, and then said, well, everyone is for life. If you take me to the destination, I can give you three times or more labor costs. This passage needs a different tone. It must make people feel that both of us are unhappy-it's not easy for the old people, and their hearts are sour, but there is also a feeling of spring breeze and sunshine, which makes them feel pity at this moment.

This is called carrot and stick, unless it is rare and extraordinary, it can't be resisted basically. But this service charge can't be said too much. In case too many people are jealous, whatever. Let's go The purpose of saying this is not to really give them money, but to leave their den, their territory, this den, so that the operability will be much greater and the possibility of escape will be greater! It looks ridiculous, but as I said before, it needs a deep foundation to operate. In this process, a subtle movement of yours, a casual look, may become a deadly weapon that pierces the defense line of the other person's mind. When Zhuge Liang conquered Meng Huo in the south, Ma Su put forward that "siege is the best, siege is the worst". Similarly, the struggle, communication and negotiation between people. , has achieved the psychological commanding heights, and basically controlled more than half of the situation.

There is also how to organize and speak this language well when you are talking nonsense with the other party, so that the other party feels that your words are natural, unpretentious and reasonable, and can convince the other party. This is another science. China's language is extensive and profound, and different viewpoints have different effects. It takes time to hone and hone. At the same time, in this process, the other party may interrupt your performance, so you should improvise and hide the truth.

Of course, if these people are a group of reckless men, they don't have to work so hard to find a bigger benefit cover for them to get things done. However, I think, you said they set up a station to attract customers, and then they started halfway. They are premeditated, but they are not smart. They should be educated organizations, at least the leaders are educated. So, they played with psychology and bought it.

Attachment: The space satellite positioning I compiled above is just an example. Don't take it seriously The specific landlord must think more reliably. I just take this example to illustrate your methods and skills in dealing with this kind of robbery.