How can the family refuse to ask for a blind date?

When I am old, my parents often care about asking questions about marriage and love, and often provide me with blind date information. Sometimes they force me to go. If you don't go, you may embarrass your parents in front of the matchmaker, or you may hurt their concern.

How can I refuse blind date without hurting my parents' good intentions? Let me talk about some of my experiences.

In fact, I am not resisting marriage, but I don't like this kind of indiscriminate bombing, and people I have met have nothing to say. So I told my parents the following situation, on the one hand, to reassure them, on the other hand, it was a euphemistic refusal.

1. I'm busy at work now.

Since they are parents, they care about all aspects of us. Family and career are all their concerns. If there are important tasks assigned by the company to be completed in the near future, I don't think they will force me to go on blind dates. The delay is temporary, the plan has not changed quickly, and it can't be delayed any longer. There are other tricks.

I have someone who is good to me now.

This person can be virtual or real. Give your parents some information to make them look forward to, and you won't be particularly worried about not having a suitable partner. Your family's request for blind date is nothing more than fear that we can't solve this problem ourselves. Of course, in order to avoid their further worries, we can say what the other side's conditions are. Don't talk too much, let them know that you are thinking and measuring. It's just not the time yet.

I have special requirements for each other.

You can put forward some conditions that you really care about, so that parents can be targeted. Manually block those unqualified blind dates and let them have confidence in themselves. If you go through strict screening, the resources provided to you will be relatively good. If you skillfully ask the other person to graduate from a university, you must know some specific skills. After parents measure, they find that they really can't meet your requirements, which is equivalent to being out of stock, naturally reducing a lot of blind date objects you don't like.

In short, your attitude can't be bad or rude. You shouldn't make trouble at home because of this when you are single. Tough attitude worries parents and makes them feel bad. Some parents will not understand you even more and continue to pay unilaterally. Be tactful, circuitous and positive. I have positive energy, in fact, a good marriage will come soon. Then you really don't need your parents to worry about it.