Go to my sister's house and talk about it.

When my sister was 20 years old, she fell in love with a boy who lived in the village. The boy is two years older than her. At that time, she had just retired from the army, and my parents didn't want to. 1. Because the boy has six sons, and he is the youngest, it is difficult for the boy to get married one after another at home. This boy has been a bully in the village camp since he was a child. Because of his ability, he was sent to the army. After his recovery, he became stronger, but with a bigger temper. No one in the village camp dares to provoke him, and will beat him regardless of his age. Even adults will say, "If you don't listen, * * will hit you." The child will be good, and my parents are worried that he will be beaten in the future.

But my sister is going to marry him, and my parents dare not mess with that boy. Boys really come to you when they are angry. So my parents followed my sister.

After my sister got married, she lived close to my home, so we knew everything about their home.

This is the same as my father's idea. My sister was really beaten after marriage. At that time, my sister was beaten around at home and would come to my house. Once my dad went to pull, and my brother-in-law came to kick my dad.

Although brother-in-law bullies others, he still knows how to live. They gave birth to a son after marriage, built a new house and moved to a place far away from my home.

On the other side of the new house, my sister opened a small shop, and life is not bad. Later, she gave birth to a daughter, and her brother-in-law didn't have much contact with her sister because of her age. Their family of four is also very happy.

But when my brother-in-law was 35 years old, he drove a tractor and collided with a big liberation car. My brother-in-law can't do it on the spot because his brother-in-law is retrograde and the compensation is very small.

At that time, nephew 12 years old and niece was only 8 years old. Life is really hard in rural areas without male labor. Later, someone introduced my sister to a door-to-door son-in-law, three years younger than my sister, with a poor family and honest people. Compared with my former brother-in-law, my second brother-in-law is a complete stranger. He is a real farmer and a good farmer. He is also good at doing farm work for two children.

However, compared with the past, my sister's house is a completely different situation. My sister used to listen to my brother-in-law. After marrying this brother-in-law, my sister became more and more tough, and everything at home listened to her.

Seven or eight years have passed, and my eldest nephew is 20 years old. He has become a big boy and started looking for someone. But before my eldest nephew's marriage happened, my sister eloped with someone.

The man who eloped is also from our village. He is older than his sister 10, and he is in his fifties. He was also a bully when he was young. He often beats his daughter-in-law and has an affair with several women. Because my sister runs a small shop, three or five people play poker during the slack season. This man in his fifties is always used to it.

My sister eloped with someone, leaving my brother-in-law and two children at home. My parents couldn't lift their heads in the chariot, my sister's home was in a mess, and my niece didn't mind going to school.

Tell me about me. Divorced for three years, I have been living in my parents' house with a 10 year old daughter. I often help my sister cook when she is at home. Now my sister is gone, leaving my brother-in-law and two children. I cook and wash clothes for them every day. After my sister left for a year, my parents specially asked my brother-in-law and I to form a family. I have a good feeling for my brother-in-law, too, brother-in-law.

But sometimes I think, what should I do if my sister comes back one day?

@ Xia He: There is a saying that "you are not a family, you don't enter a house." More suitable for you and your brother-in-law. Go through the formalities normally and live together.