On sister-in-law's opposition to buying a house

I just didn't write "I might as well subsidize your brother and sister-in-law if I have the money to buy a house" on my face.

I used to think that 202 1 should weaken the preference for boys over girls. If there is, it should be in some areas where the economy may not be so developed. It turned out that I might be version 2 of S-B.

Let's talk about some key points of this matter first, and then discuss the widespread cases of son preference in real life.

In this incident that looks like a joke, there are two very important points to clarify:

(1)30w is saved by women themselves, not for parents to spend 300,000 to buy a house for themselves.

Personally, I think 30w is not a small number. After all, for a child like me who takes the subsistence allowance as the moonlight, if I am lucky enough to save 5k every month, I can save 6w a year, and if I can save 30w, I have to save it for five years. This is under my budget without any special circumstances.

So, how can we achieve a monthly net deposit of 5k? Either my salary is high or I save money (it seems ok to have a boyfriend). Anyway, that woman made great efforts to save the 30w.

So what? I can't figure out how to spend my hard-earned money. Why can't I buy a house?

(2) buying a house will sever the relationship. Is this relationship a bit cheap?

As I said before, this is buying a house with the woman's own money, which is too inconvenient. I just want to ask, if this kind of parents take out 30w to buy a house for their daughter, should they throw her away before giving birth to her daughter?

Just because I bought a house with my own money and didn't help my brother, that's all? I really can't think of anything to maintain such affection.

So, this kind of parents, I think if it were me, I would choose to leave. After all, from the standpoint of parents, daughters are used to help younger brothers. Other than that, it's useless.

Ten thousand alpacas are omitted here. But I recently found that this situation seems to be particularly common. I went home some time ago and found that my mother is exactly the same as this woman here. My grandmother is a son preference type, and then asks her daughter for money to subsidize her son. Use my savings to buy a house and a car for my son and then raise my daughter.

Of course, I'm not very good at expressing my views on the previous generation, and I always think it's quite outrageous. But I think, to be honest, don't expect to raise children for old age. When you can't take care of yourself, who wants to talk to people who drag you down?

In short, people should have their own value at any time, and only in this way will they not be in a very difficult moment.